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Re: TTC buddy
« Reply #4230 on: March 15, 2019, 06:48:38 am »

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« Reply #4231 on: March 15, 2019, 09:23:52 am »
Glad to here your still ttc Settledgirl. Hopefully you will find a new job soon too.

Angela so glad your at a lot more positive stage in the pregnancy. And great to here about the house. I was the same as you and spent so many days crying thinking it wasn't going to happen and I should just give up and so glad I didn't.

So we had a very up and down day yesterday that turned out to be a great day. Yesterday my partner called to say he wasn't well and was coming home from work, I then went to the toilet and the brown blood had started again but there was a big clot that was red. We went to MAU and the said everything looked fine with my cervix and they can see another clot but no active bleeding and we heard the little man's heart beat. We then got a call from our estate agent to say the landlord has accepted us to move into the house so we're over the moon. Just waiting to get all our paperwork sorted this week to find out a move in date but should be at the start of April.

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Re: TTC buddy
« Reply #4232 on: March 15, 2019, 12:38:43 pm »

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« Reply #4233 on: March 15, 2019, 03:40:13 pm »
Yeah it's higher in early pregnancy as you cervix can be irritated by the transfer. Plus a higher chance of haematomas due to the same reason. Plus we have to take progesterone for the first trimester for me I stopped at around 7 weeks as my levels were high enough some continue till 12 weeks and some a bit longer. When you stop them especially if a pessary a lot of people say they have had a bleed or some people have bleeds using them. I guess our bodies take a little longer to build progesterone. But it depends on circumstances too like some people that have ivf have endometriosis and heard that it is higher risk of bleeding for them as their cervix xan be irritated very easily.

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« Reply #4234 on: March 15, 2019, 04:00:02 pm »
Im so glad youve progressed alot further Angela it's so nice to see when we all understand the heartbreak we've been through everyone on this feed deserves the happiness of having a successful pregnancy it's taken a long time I mean joined this thread last feburary so just over a year now and I feel like we've all lives each others story's and connected so it's so nice to see good things happening to you all. And congratulations ria! It's all coming together slowly but surely ! I got a phone call for an interview today which is next Wednesday so fingers crossed for that! Xx

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« Reply #4235 on: March 15, 2019, 05:06:19 pm »
Ohh, good luck in your interview! Yes, totally agree, you gain completely different understanding and have some sort of bond when you know someone else has struggled with fertility.

Have you had the glucose test yet Ria?

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« Reply #4236 on: March 15, 2019, 07:58:13 pm »

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« Reply #4237 on: March 15, 2019, 08:31:34 pm »
Signiture too small!

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« Reply #4238 on: March 15, 2019, 10:29:12 pm »
When all my prayers to your family Angela I hope everything works out ok!

And ria least your getting somewhere now! And it makes it all worth it! I just wanna be pregnant! Xxx

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Re: TTC buddy
« Reply #4239 on: March 16, 2019, 08:38:19 am »

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« Reply #4240 on: March 16, 2019, 10:19:04 am »
Thoughts are with you and your family Angela. Hopefully baby will stay in there for as long as possible. It my friend lost her waters with her first too and she managed 3 weeks before they induced her.

Yeah I had a glucose test last week assuming it's fine as haven't had a call and they didn't say anything when I went in the other day. Have another one in May.

Settledgirl good luck for your interview.

Zalee good luck for this cycles your follicles are good size. I had 4 the same size for ivf and got 4 eggs out of them.

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« Reply #4241 on: March 16, 2019, 02:21:36 pm »

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« Reply #4242 on: March 17, 2019, 08:50:57 am »
Yeah the one in Birmingham is huge. It's the same place they host the clothes road show and the venue is massive. Too far for me to travel though so I've just been looking for good deals online etc and our mothercare is waiting for a closing date so I'm waiting for that to go get the last bits.

It's good that she is being positive it's still possible for baby to be born live and well at that stage so it's the best way to be. But yeah I agree when alone she probably is scared because it's still very daunting to go through.

My maternity pay is now being calculated so I have a very busy 6 weeks as taking as many hours as I can do. It's also the end of the tax year so if I can get a higher pay it means I will get a higher bonus. If I'm a bit inactive this will be why. Will still update you all after my scan on Friday and will be reading when I can just may not respond.

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« Reply #4243 on: March 17, 2019, 09:24:31 am »

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« Reply #4244 on: March 17, 2019, 11:23:01 pm »
All my prayers are with your family Angela sending all positive vibes and hugs your way. And thank you ria !

Quick question which is really bugging me.
Am I TTC correctly so I've been tracking for over a year and I always believed that you had sex the days leading up to your blazing positive opk which I have always done and a few days after anyway I just read that it's not the days leading up to it from when you get the first positive opk but it actually when you get your first positive opk it's them three days including that day onwards.

So example I've got my positive opk today, and me and my other half having been doing the deed and we last had sex Friday night around midnight. As be had a flight to catch for a business meeting Saturday morning does this mean I could missed my chance ?? Normally I do it leading up to and after I just wondered if basically this month was out the window!

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