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Offline kail21

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Asking out a guy
« on: June 24, 2018, 01:22:25 PM »
So I’ve been snapchatting a guy I like since like January and talk pretty often. He asked me to hang out once and I was seriously busy, I asked him then once and he was busy....so now it’s summer he hasn’t asked me but I think he’s just kinda a quiet shy guy, should I make a move and ask him to hang out? What would I say or suggest? Need advice!

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #1 on: June 25, 2018, 01:05:34 PM »
Do it girl
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2018, 04:49:20 PM »
Okay thanks! Just thinking of how to bring it up...

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #3 on: June 27, 2018, 02:39:52 PM »
Just work it into the conversation casually. Like hey we should hang out soon.
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #4 on: June 29, 2018, 12:18:14 AM »
Thanks, I did and he said, “Sure! That’d be fun!” Sooo any suggestions of what we should do?

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #5 on: June 30, 2018, 08:53:12 AM »
Awwwwe that's awesome!!! Movie or dinner maybe?
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #6 on: June 30, 2018, 05:05:11 PM »
Go somewhere fun. Not too intimate yet, just for laughs. That’s the best advice, fun.
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #7 on: July 05, 2018, 10:27:02 PM »
Definitely do something! He could be too shy to make a move.
When you two get together do something you both like so you both will have a good time!!


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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2018, 11:44:00 PM »
Thanks for the advice guys, it all helps a lot! Here’s my problem now though, we couldn’t really decide on what to do so then I was like how about next Saturday we hang and he was like aw man I’ll be at a camp for the day....so I was just like okay another time and he agreed but now it’s like, I don’t want to be too desperate by keep bringing up hanging out, I feel like it’s his turn too Suggest now, I’m just upset this whole thing kinda backtracked ugh! Thoughts on what I should do now?

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #9 on: July 10, 2018, 01:19:08 PM »
You should wait it out then. If he doesn't do anything in about two weeks, maybe he doesn't want to hang out that bad. There's two of you, not one, so you don't have to do everything.
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2018, 07:08:52 PM »
Yea you’re right with there’s two of us! I’ve waited it out and he hasn’t brought it up, guess it’ll never happen :( thanks though!

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #11 on: July 16, 2018, 07:03:19 PM »
Awwwe I'm sorry. How long has it been?
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #12 on: July 22, 2018, 02:04:17 PM »
Like 2 weeks lol I’ve become more distant over Snapchat with him now, I’m kinda in the mindset like if you want me you can work for it

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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #13 on: July 22, 2018, 02:25:27 PM »
Yeah, that's good. Keep it up!
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Re: Asking out a guy
« Reply #14 on: July 22, 2018, 07:33:04 PM »
Thank you!