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Overthinking and stuff
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Re: Overthinking and stuff
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Re: Overthinking and stuff
« Reply #5 on: July 16, 2018, 11:30:55 am »
The best thing to do is be completely honest with them about how you are feeling and why. My best friend said as we were going through a tough time with our other friends that if you guys are really friends then they will help you through the ugly and still be there for you regardless. I am like you and I overthink a lot but you just have to think about what you voice to others, how you do it and whether it is rational or not. Try placing yourself in their shoes before voicing it out. If you choose to talk to them, remember to keep calm about it and be reasonable and understanding because they have perspectives too. I know this from experience and honestly it takes time and mistakes to learn how to deal with confrontation and with overthinking a lot.