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Offline Deepblue04

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Boy that is a friend
« on: September 13, 2018, 05:24:22 PM »
So there’s this boy let’s call him Dave. So Dave is a good friend of mine we’ve been friends for a long time. He told me he is Aromatic which means he isn’t romantically attracted to anyone. Recently we’ve gotten closer. As friends, today since my best friend didn’t take the bus we sat together. When we were at his stop he told me I should get off there too. Because my house is just a few blocks away from that stop I did get off and I told him I’d walk him home, we were passing this rose bush and he asked me if I wanted a rose. I told him if you wanted to get one for me he could do he did. He was struggling to get it off so he said to the rose bush “give me your rose” then he said “not because I’m gonna give it to her just because..” eventually he got it off, cut off the thorns, and gave it to me. When we got to his house we hugged and I went home, a little bit later he called me and we talked for a minute and he asked if I was home or not I told him I just got home, so he asked if I was walking around or if I was relaxing. He’s really nice to me all the time. I don’t think he has a crush on me because he says he doesn’t like boys or girls and he tells anyone who asks. Also at school he’ll put his arm around my shoulder and stuff like that. Maybe he was just being a gentleman. What do you think. Do you think he likes me? Or is he just being kind?

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Re: Boy that is a friend
« Reply #1 on: September 13, 2018, 08:53:54 PM »
He sounds like a beautiful person. Omg a cant believe he talked to the rose bush that’s adorable. I think he could like you though. He seems like it. Maybe ask him.
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Re: Boy that is a friend
« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2018, 04:39:59 AM »
The only way to find out is to ask. Just tell him you don't want to ruin your friendship by asking but you wanted to know.

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Re: Boy that is a friend
« Reply #3 on: October 13, 2018, 09:34:12 AM »
This boy that I’ve previously talk about i used have a big crush back in 6th grade, we are in 8th now. He confessed to me that he had a crush on me in 6-7th grade and he said he kinda likes me now when he asked me if I liked him I told him that I like him back in 6th grade but I’m not sure If I like him now. I was wondering if the people on this forum could help me. So I have boys that are friends and I like all of them in a friendly way, but I like this one boy I’m talking about in a different way. I’m not sure if it’s a friendly like or a crushing like. He makes me smile and laugh and I do often find myself trying to be interested in what he is interested in but I also kind of think that just a thing friends do. I also really love being with him because we just click so well together. I love watching shows with him and listening to music and even just talking. I don’t know if I have a crush or not I’ve forgotten how it feels. I looked it up (I know that’s not the most reliable source) it says that if it questioning it then I probably do but I’m not sure.

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Re: Boy that is a friend
« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2018, 01:28:47 PM »
Also I don’t feel insecure around him. What I mean is I could do the weirdest thing around him and he would be cool with it and just laugh it off and do something weirder

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Re: Boy that is a friend
« Reply #5 on: October 19, 2018, 06:26:37 AM »
Like everyone else has been saying, I would talk to him about it. Not all aromantic people are the same. Some will date others while some won't. Romantic attraction isn't the only reason a person might decide to date. I'd say just talk about both of your feelings and see where to go from there