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Offline WolfGirl

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Annoying friend.
« on: September 24, 2018, 01:02:55 PM »
So, there’s this girl at my church, and all of the adults in my life think we’re friends. This girl, oh my gosh, will not leave me alone. She is so clingy, and then she complains about another girl being clingy to her. All she does is talk about her boyfriend and her crush (not the same people at all. She’s also has had probably 15 boyfriends in the past). Me and my best friend both think she’s annoying, and my mom and her mom (the annoying person’s mom) keep setting up times where we can hang out, and I only agree because it’s easier for my mom because she doesn’t have to drive me to places if I hang out with the girl. I tried to go to a theme park for my birthday, and this girl HAD to come along, she was so excited to come with me that she talked about it everyday. I don’t know how to stop her from hangin out with me, she’s 13, and I just don’t like her being around me but everyone thinks we’re friends. PLEASE HELP!!!!

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2018, 03:42:12 PM »
I understand if you don’t like her. And at the start I thought you were talking about someone your age. She’s 13. 13 years old. Most 13 year olds are clingy and annoying. Just talk to your mum about it.
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #2 on: September 24, 2018, 03:57:17 PM »
I would just say.... “Your nice and I like hanging out with you, but sometimes I feel like I should explore and hangout with other girls! I don’t want us not to be friends anymore but I’d be nice to hang out with others too. I hope you understand.”

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #3 on: September 24, 2018, 04:56:53 PM »
See, the probably with saying I want to hang out with people my age, my best friend is 13, 14 Friday, so, that doesn’t work that well...

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #4 on: September 25, 2018, 12:33:28 AM »
WolfGirl, she’s excited about going to a theme park with you? Don’t you think maybe you should have a little compassion? It’s not like she has done something personally to you, but I do understand how annoying people can be.
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #5 on: September 25, 2018, 07:30:49 AM »
Or just talk to her and say how you feel.

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #6 on: September 25, 2018, 07:43:28 AM »
WolfGirl, she’s excited about going to a theme park with you? Don’t you think maybe you should have a little compassion? It’s not like she has done something personally to you, but I do understand how annoying people can be.
exactly. I always agree with you MaryKay.
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #7 on: September 26, 2018, 01:58:08 AM »
Awwwe thank you Darken12
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #8 on: September 30, 2018, 12:50:06 PM »
You should talk to your mom about it than tell her how you feel. If you don’t express there’s a problem no one will see there’s a problem.

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #9 on: October 02, 2018, 03:56:12 PM »
I understand if you don’t like her. And at the start I thought you were talking about someone your age. She’s 13. 13 years old. Most 13 year olds are clingy and annoying. Just talk to your mum about it.
i feel attacked lmao

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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #10 on: October 03, 2018, 12:11:31 AM »
Haha don’t feel attacked. Darken12 is 12 or 13 herself.
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #11 on: October 03, 2018, 04:58:17 AM »
Haha don’t feel attacked. Darken12 is 12 or 13 herself.
I am clingy and annoying lol
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Re: Annoying friend.
« Reply #12 on: October 03, 2018, 10:19:24 AM »
That’s so funny.
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