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Offline イザベル

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Re: Crossroads
« Reply #15 on: October 26, 2018, 04:49:26 AM »
I won’t say you need to leave him, but I will say that you shouldn’t need to babysit a 35 yr old.

Sounds like you need a really long talk, and don’t let him dodge your questions! After 4 yrs, you should be able to clearly figure out your future together. He may have proposed without being ready, and that’s okay. But will he ever be ready is the question.

As for yourself, do you see the two of you growing old together? If not, then it may be time to move on. And I agree with the fact that the past years haven’t been a waste, they’ve probably helped you learn things about yourself and what things work and don’t work in a relationship for you.
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