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Offline Thegirl110011

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Can’t get turned on
« on: November 06, 2018, 06:00:10 PM »
Well i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are both virgins. Whenever he does anything “down there” i feel like it doesn’t feel how it should. He hasn’t been able to make me cum. I have never came before because i am inexperienced. I wanted to seal the deal on prom but I’m afraid i won’t cum

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Re: Can’t get turned on
« Reply #1 on: November 09, 2018, 07:44:08 PM »
You’re right you probably won’t cum. Actually I’ll bet my life on it.
I’m guessing you’ve watched porn? Well porn is fake, they are actors. They are acting, girls don’t just orgasm by a guy pumping away.
Have you made yourself orgasm? It’s all about the clitoris. You need to stimulate that. The vagina itself doesn’t have many nerve endings that’s why you can’t feel a tampon when it’s in properly.
You need to masturbate. Find out what feels good and how to please yourself. If you can’t please yourself how on earth can your boyfriend know what to do? He doesn’t have your parts.
Anyway don’t worry about the destination (orgasm) it’s all about the journey. Concentrate on just enjoying and exploring don’t expect an orgasm. Also most girls won’t orgasm by penetration alone. They will need direct stimulation to the clitoris (ie you or your partners hand)