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Offline Thegirl110011

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First time having sex and felt nothing
« on: December 08, 2018, 11:18:15 PM »
Okay so my boyfriend and i have been together 11 months and we have almost had sex at least once and tonight we finally did. Well i didn’t feel anything and i didn’t “finish”. Should i be worried? Like is it possible that i just can’t feel anything?

Offline Nicjane

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Re: First time having sex and felt nothing
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2018, 04:41:58 AM »
It’s normal.....your first time is always a bit of a disappointment....you expect to see stars & often you get nothing. The enjoyment comes from experience, your discover what feels good, what turns you on etc the more you have sex.

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Re: First time having sex and felt nothing
« Reply #2 on: December 14, 2018, 06:55:11 PM »
It seems you have an idea of what sex is like (maybe from watching porn) that isn’t realistic.

It’s like you’ve walked through an art gallery saw some paintings then had a go yourself and wondered why your painting doesn’t look like the ones in the gallery.

Sex takes practice. Most men have been “practicing” (masterbating) for YEARS before they get anywhere near a girl. Have you been “practicing”? Do you know where your clitors is? Have you made yourself orgasm? If you don’t know how to do it for yourself you can’t expect your boyfriend to know what to do.