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Offline Flowerbomb

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What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« on: December 11, 2018, 12:12:35 am »
I'd be grateful for a response.
I have plenty reason to believe that i am pregnant, I've taken two tests but I definitely took them too early. I have been experiencing light pink discharge, thick, white and sticky discharge and light cramping which if my research is correct is common and normal signs of early pregnancy. Myself and my partner have already discussed whether this is an option we both mutually agreed that this is not something we're ready for. (I'm also not some scared teenager it's a level headed decision) I won't consider adoption because I couldn't live knowing my child is out there somewhere without their biological parents. I'd rather terminate asap than go into this knowing I'll be unhappy, I want the best for my future kids and I can't provide that now. Is there anything I can do to prepare myself I know its not easy, but I am very willing to accept the consequences.

Thank you in advance.

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2018, 03:21:44 pm »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #3 on: December 22, 2018, 09:52:11 pm »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2019, 02:11:27 am »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

I am sorry but I was not pushing my beliefs on you. I was giving my advice like you asked.

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #6 on: January 22, 2019, 11:19:49 am »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

I am sorry but I was not pushing my beliefs on you. I was giving my advice like you asked.

You were pushing your beliefs because you believe that a bunch of lifeless cells are already counts as a 'baby' and abortion is 'killing babies'. This is your BELIEF, as actual science notes that surprisingly a bunch of cells is not actually categorized as a formed human baby. (shocker!) So when someone asks how to prepare for an abortion (not whether she should have one!) you should either support the woman going through with such a difficult decision, or you can just sit yourself down and keep quiet. Just because you believe something doesn't make it true. It makes it true for YOU, that's all.

As for the actual topic of this thread, I support you in your decision Flowerbomb and would have made the same one! I had a friend who decided to get an abortion - she was in a loving long term relationship, had a purchased apartment, a dog, seemingly good life... but she wasn't ready. they weren't ready. she wasn't at a place in her life that she was happy with it and herself and so she had an abortion. 3 years later the two of them are engaged, with jobs they both love, a new apartment they adore, and are generally happier. For them this was the right decision, and she knew it. It doesn't mean it would be the right decision for everyone, but it was for them and that is all that matters. I hope you are doing okay!

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #7 on: January 23, 2019, 02:46:52 am »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

I am sorry but I was not pushing my beliefs on you. I was giving my advice like you asked.

You were pushing your beliefs because you believe that a bunch of lifeless cells are already counts as a 'baby' and abortion is 'killing babies'. This is your BELIEF, as actual science notes that surprisingly a bunch of cells is not actually categorized as a formed human baby. (shocker!) So when someone asks how to prepare for an abortion (not whether she should have one!) you should either support the woman going through with such a difficult decision, or you can just sit yourself down and keep quiet. Just because you believe something doesn't make it true. It makes it true for YOU, that's all.

As for the actual topic of this thread, I support you in your decision Flowerbomb and would have made the same one! I had a friend who decided to get an abortion - she was in a loving long term relationship, had a purchased apartment, a dog, seemingly good life... but she wasn't ready. they weren't ready. she wasn't at a place in her life that she was happy with it and herself and so she had an abortion. 3 years later the two of them are engaged, with jobs they both love, a new apartment they adore, and are generally happier. For them this was the right decision, and she knew it. It doesn't mean it would be the right decision for everyone, but it was for them and that is all that matters. I hope you are doing okay!

Uhhh no. A "bunch of 'lifeless' cells" are actually a LIVING CHILD!!!!!!! Have you ever heard he heartbeat of a "lifeless cell"?

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #8 on: January 23, 2019, 06:07:53 pm »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

I am sorry but I was not pushing my beliefs on you. I was giving my advice like you asked.

You were pushing your beliefs because you believe that a bunch of lifeless cells are already counts as a 'baby' and abortion is 'killing babies'. This is your BELIEF, as actual science notes that surprisingly a bunch of cells is not actually categorized as a formed human baby. (shocker!) So when someone asks how to prepare for an abortion (not whether she should have one!) you should either support the woman going through with such a difficult decision, or you can just sit yourself down and keep quiet. Just because you believe something doesn't make it true. It makes it true for YOU, that's all.

As for the actual topic of this thread, I support you in your decision Flowerbomb and would have made the same one! I had a friend who decided to get an abortion - she was in a loving long term relationship, had a purchased apartment, a dog, seemingly good life... but she wasn't ready. they weren't ready. she wasn't at a place in her life that she was happy with it and herself and so she had an abortion. 3 years later the two of them are engaged, with jobs they both love, a new apartment they adore, and are generally happier. For them this was the right decision, and she knew it. It doesn't mean it would be the right decision for everyone, but it was for them and that is all that matters. I hope you are doing okay!

Uhhh no. A "bunch of 'lifeless' cells" are actually a LIVING CHILD!!!!!!! Have you ever heard he heartbeat of a "lifeless cell"?

This is not the place for a debate over what you believe. That is what you believe, and what I believe is in science, which shows that to a certain point in time it's cells that do not have a heartbeat or are anything but a bunch of cells, and that's the point when it's allowed to get an abortion - after that point usually it is some health problem, or other important reason for having it. Either way, believe what you want but don't shove those beliefs onto other people. If you don't agree with their choices, then walk away.

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Re: What can I do to prepare for an abortion?
« Reply #9 on: January 24, 2019, 01:59:36 pm »
I feel like you need to reconsider your actions. This abortion you are planning to do is something that will kill your baby. Here is my question to you. Do you want to have your own child's blood on your hands?

I think you need to take this opinion elsewhere. Go push your beliefs on someone else, I made myself VERY clear.

I am sorry but I was not pushing my beliefs on you. I was giving my advice like you asked.

You were pushing your beliefs because you believe that a bunch of lifeless cells are already counts as a 'baby' and abortion is 'killing babies'. This is your BELIEF, as actual science notes that surprisingly a bunch of cells is not actually categorized as a formed human baby. (shocker!) So when someone asks how to prepare for an abortion (not whether she should have one!) you should either support the woman going through with such a difficult decision, or you can just sit yourself down and keep quiet. Just because you believe something doesn't make it true. It makes it true for YOU, that's all.

As for the actual topic of this thread, I support you in your decision Flowerbomb and would have made the same one! I had a friend who decided to get an abortion - she was in a loving long term relationship, had a purchased apartment, a dog, seemingly good life... but she wasn't ready. they weren't ready. she wasn't at a place in her life that she was happy with it and herself and so she had an abortion. 3 years later the two of them are engaged, with jobs they both love, a new apartment they adore, and are generally happier. For them this was the right decision, and she knew it. It doesn't mean it would be the right decision for everyone, but it was for them and that is all that matters. I hope you are doing okay!

Uhhh no. A "bunch of 'lifeless' cells" are actually a LIVING CHILD!!!!!!! Have you ever heard he heartbeat of a "lifeless cell"?

This is not the place for a debate over what you believe. That is what you believe, and what I believe is in science, which shows that to a certain point in time it's cells that do not have a heartbeat or are anything but a bunch of cells, and that's the point when it's allowed to get an abortion - after that point usually it is some health problem, or other important reason for having it. Either way, believe what you want but don't shove those beliefs onto other people. If you don't agree with their choices, then walk away.

Can you really put your faith in science? It is unreliable. It is constantly changing.
A baby is a child that is full of life. It brings joy to a family. a family needs to have joy in order to not get angry with each other. And what this mom is doing is destroying this joy.