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Offline vtclark99

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Sex with my boyfriend
« on: December 26, 2018, 08:17:11 PM »
So my boyfriend and I took the next step in our relationship and decided to have sex. The only problem is, he’s pretty big so some positions he wanted to try were uncomfortable and awkward. Idk what to do...like what positions would be best for both of us and wha can we do so it doesn’t hurt as much?

Offline LilyMcD

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Re: Sex with my boyfriend
« Reply #1 on: January 28, 2019, 07:03:53 PM »
Hi,
Sorry you're going through this. It can be so frustrating. Also, it's very difficult for a man to comprehend just what is required to make sex comfortable and enjoyable when you're the one who has to lie back and take it (sorry, there wasn't a more polite way to put it! !)
In this case, a great deal of patience is needed from you both. You might need to take a little longer getting comfortable with each other's bodies and that is absolutely fine! In fact, it can be even better sometimes! 
Try any and every position until you get a few that allows you more control. Have fun and if certain positions are uncomfortable or painful just stop and try something else. It's usually to be a bit lighthearted and don't let frustration get you down!
Try spooning position and any sideways positions to give him intensity and you control. Also girl on top!!
Be comfortable and safe and have fun finding your moves together!  Good luck! 

Offline KappaCactus

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Re: Sex with my boyfriend
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2019, 07:17:36 AM »
I’m sure it take time to adjust. Just take it slow use protection make sure you’re lubricant (is that the right word?) enough so it can be easier. And remember sex is not supposed to hurt!

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Re: Sex with my boyfriend
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Offline Shortie2210

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Re: Sex with my boyfriend
« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2019, 04:14:24 AM »
The ladies below me are right. I lost my virginity not that long ago and it hurt for the first few times, for me personally. you kinda just have to ride it out, Literally lol. Sometimes a little extra foreplay could help make you feel more comfortable, and just remind him sometimes to just be aware and gentle. You’re definitely not alone, it’s normal girl. Don’t try to do everything at once, do what makes you feel comfortable and go from there.