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Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: January 23, 2019, 05:11:17 am »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2019, 10:21:08 am »
Tell him to back off and if he doesn't want to block him. Being friends with benefits with an ex is an awful idea as you won't be able to move on. You'll just keep regretting it if you keep it up!

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #2 on: January 29, 2019, 08:35:04 pm »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #3 on: January 30, 2019, 10:25:09 am »
Well you need to distance yourself from him for your own good. How do you plan to do that?

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #4 on: January 30, 2019, 03:49:33 pm »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #5 on: January 31, 2019, 10:26:00 am »
I don't think so. At least not yet. My ex's family did the same, but you need time to heal and for that, you need distance from all that is him, that includes his family. Besides, he could go home if he knows you're there and catch you by surprise. You don't have to block them from your life, but going to their house and being with them is gonna make the breakup harder for you!

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #6 on: January 31, 2019, 11:55:35 pm »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #7 on: February 01, 2019, 10:24:24 am »
Mm... maybe try teling them the truth nicely: "I'm sorry, but I need some time to heal from the relationship and unfortunately you guys were a part of it. I don't want you to take it the wrong way, but going to your house and spending time with you makes it harder for me to move on" or something of the sorts.
If they feel offended don't feel bad. It would be selfish not to understand you in this situation.

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #8 on: February 02, 2019, 02:29:04 am »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #9 on: February 02, 2019, 10:58:41 am »
Dedicate your time to discover yourself now! All your time is yours again. Try different activities and you'll see how good days happen again. It will take a while to , but you'll find yourself not thinking about him one day and realise the healing is starting. try distracting yourself in the meantime with your favorite hobbies

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #10 on: February 02, 2019, 06:44:05 pm »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #11 on: February 03, 2019, 12:36:53 pm »
It's normal to think that, just try and brush it off and keep distracting yourself until you stop caring about that. It seems now that you'll never stop caring, but you  Also try to hang out with your friends more, so you remember there's others that love you and more people you can have fun with!

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #12 on: February 05, 2019, 12:30:23 am »

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Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Reply #13 on: February 05, 2019, 10:21:30 am »
I understand. You keep the distractions coming until you don't need them! And you're welcome! I'm glad I could help! :)