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Offline emmaloucoy

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My boyfriends family creep me out!!!!
« on: March 14, 2019, 12:45:30 PM »
I met my boyfriend a year ago after a really horrible year. He has really made me believe in love again and he tells me all the time how much he loves me and how beautiful he thinks I am and we both go above and beyond for each other and I absolutely adore him. There’s one problem. His family! When I first met his mother and his older brother (who is 32, still lives at home, never had a girlfriend or a job and in my opinion a complete waster) she seemed lovely but when I went shopping with my boyfriend and his mother and brother I started getting very weird vibes from them. His mother is extremely childish and she started hiding in aisles in the store and jumping out and trying to scare us. His brother is completely vulgar and I’m good with dirty jokes or comments but he takes the piss! His mother is very clingy to my boyfriend and has made it clear that she thinks he spends too much time with me and throws tantrums if he can’t cancel plans with me to take her somewhere and his brother is just unbelievable. Not that looks matter but he is extremely overweight and has had to have many teeth taken out because he fails in personal hygiene and he stays up all night playing PlayStation and sleeps all day and when he does leave the house it’s always with his mother and so many people have made comments to myself and my boyfriend how strange their relationship is and that they’re uncomfortably close. My boyfriend got him a trial run in his workplace to try and get him into the working world but his demeanor and comments made all the staff so uncomfortable that they begged the boss not to hire him. I’ve spoken to my boyfriend about his but he is adament that there is nothing wrong with his family. His mother also always makes a point of telling me that my boyfriend always used to be up for what they call a laugh which include his older brother tickling him but now he’s not “fun” anymore. I honestly couldn’t make this up but I’m so worried because if i do decide to spend the rest of my life with this man but I honestly don’t think I want my future children to have much to do with his side of the family which is awful I know. Could anybody help me on what to do?

Offline MaryKay

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Re: My boyfriends family creep me out!!!!
« Reply #1 on: March 20, 2019, 07:52:01 AM »
Man I’m so sorry. Talk to your boyfriend first and see if it’s okay that your future children don’t have to be exposed to that because honestly they’re bad examples.
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