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Offline Sanya

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Mommy issues
« on: April 18, 2019, 05:16:50 pm »
Okay so I am 15. Puberty did not turn out good for me
I know am not a super pretty girl like others i see around me.
Mothers (they say) love their kids no matter their looks and brains
My mom over the last year has reminded me daily:-
"You are the ugliest"
"You are so short"
"You are so skinny"
"No guy will ever fall for you"

She does not understand that it is already hard for me to accept me as I am
It's hard loving my ownself already and now that she has increased her frequency of insulting me.. It's become yet more hard
What do i do? Am so sick of this

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Re: Mommy issues
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2019, 11:36:28 am »
That's awful. How can she do that to you?!
It seems you have a toxic mother, the only thing I can think of is meditation. Try to meditate so you get a better perspective about yourself and change your mindset. It may help you accept who you are and not listen to your mother. There are several apps for that, I'm using one called headspace and they ask you what focus you want to give your meditation sessions. I think I remember there was an option about loving yourself. Hope that helps! And your mother is being very mean to you, don't listen to her! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are pretty even if you don't think so!

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Re: Mommy issues
« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2019, 03:42:56 pm »
Thanks for ur advice but i dont think meditation is my cup of tea.. Is there somethig i could say or do that will shut her up except plastic surgery of course coz i did not choose my face

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Re: Mommy issues
« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2019, 02:44:17 pm »
Always glad to help!

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Re: Mommy issues
« Reply #4 on: May 01, 2019, 08:02:59 am »
-Jade