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Offline Kaitiejo

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Post here if youve been ttc for what it feels like FOREVER!!!!
« on: February 15, 2012, 11:04:06 PM »
Thought this could be a good forum for those that are TTC and are sick of feeling pregnancy symptoms but it's "all in our heads :-/" and then getting af :(
Here's my story my husband and I are going on 7months of trying if I don't get pregnant this month, boxes of pregnancy tests, boxes of clear blue easy digital ovulation tests, vitamins doctor visits, sperm analysis and everything's a-ok but still no baby I was prescribed clhimid last month but my husband wanted me to hold off because he said the past 6months iv turned the joy of TTC like a job :-/ so we decided to put the clhimid away and try the "try but not try" approach seeing as everyone has been telling me that's the way to go and that it will happen when I least expect it to (easier said that done) so I thought it would be nice for everyone TTC to be able to vent a little and get some comfort and advice EVERYTIME we get the bfn... Look forward to seeing everyones stories
Baby dust to all and best wishes xx
Fingers crossed all of us TTC get our BFP we've been waiting for
-Kaitie

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Re: Post here if youve been ttc for what it feels like FOREVER!!!!
« Reply #1 on: February 15, 2012, 11:13:00 PM »
Chlomid*^ not clhimid haha auto spell *smh*

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Re: Post here if youve been ttc for what it feels like FOREVER!!!!
« Reply #2 on: February 15, 2012, 11:17:00 PM »
Seven months is nothing lol I been trying over two YEARS and just today was told I have PCOS this is bullcrap I dont care about no pcos I'm still trying and it's gna happen so

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« Reply #3 on: February 15, 2012, 11:54:31 PM »
I'm so sorry candyra I wish you the best of luck! I love that you keep such a great attitude about things... I pray you get your BFP soon!!! I know 7months may not be long time for many but it still sucks gett that bfn each month... Good luck and baby dust to you and I pray you get your BFP soon:)
-Kaitie

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« Reply #4 on: February 16, 2012, 12:16:53 AM »
I no seven months of negatives can be hard so BFP to us both soon

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« Reply #5 on: February 16, 2012, 12:20:59 AM »
Hi! Yes it's feeling like forever as the months roll by. My husband and I have been TTC for 8 months now:( I'm due for AF on Saturday and havent taken a test in two days. I think I will just wait until Saturday. Sometimes you can only hope that if you wait longer to take the test it will be positive! I understand the husband thing...my husband is sick of the OPT and so I just try to make more about him! Hey ladies sexy nighties are now on sale since v day it over!! Surprise him by making it seem like its all about him=)

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« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2012, 12:39:17 AM »
Hi ladies! My husband and I have been TTC baby no. 2 for the past six months and it still nothing (my heart goes out to the couples that are going on years) Although I swear pregnant women and babies are
Following me!!! It feels like everyone on Facebook is either pregnant or just had a baby :( I'm going down to buy an OPK this arvo so fingers crossed this month is our month. Good luck to you all xx

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« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2012, 12:54:48 AM »
I know how you feel about deleying taking the test i do it every month it seems to come (af) right after i take the test too! And maybe I will go out and buy a little something s**y for my husband and wear it on my ovulation day next month :p haha surprise lol Ahaha praying you all get a BFP soon <3 baby dust to all :) let's keep this forum going i know it makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one. And oh the fb thing! Ugh I was thinking of deleting mine it's taunting me EVERYTIME in get on someone else is pregnant or just had a baby and these girls arnt even trying or are with the dad ugh and here us woman are wanting nothing more than to be mothers and we have so much trouble... :-/ let's keep this going and send some baby dust to each other also if your part of this forum let us know when you get your BFP keep the rest of us still trying keep hope <3

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« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2012, 01:35:07 AM »
I know how you ladies are feeling, I have all of you beat my husband and I are going 3-4 years ttc. I have been on clomid and ovulation test strips, etc. etc. etc.... Now the next step is going to the fertility specialist. I think about it everyday. It can drive a person crazy. We want a little boy so badly. I just pray and try to leave it up to the Lord, but it sure makes it hard to go on sometimes. I sure hope the Lord blesses all of you very soon! Have any of you tried preseed? I am going to try it and see what happens! Don't lose hope ladies! I will keep you updated, you all do the same. ; )

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« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2012, 02:15:17 AM »
I think this thread is great! I love to read all your stories and I think this is a great chain of support! My husband and I are TTC. It seems like now that we've strayed trying, the days go by so slowly!! All I want it for my AF to come around to see if I am pregnant r not!! I am so scared it will take years. I have been feeling a little off this month (sore breasts, waves of nausea, crampy) but I don't want it to go to my head just in case I get that negative!! Fingers crossed we all get BFPs really soon : )

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« Reply #10 on: February 16, 2012, 07:16:57 AM »
It is great wot you've done we all need to have our little sooks to someone other then our partners that think we put more work into TTC then work itself, it gets really frustrating when it takes for wot seems 4eva!! We have been ttc for our 2nd for a year & a half now, I kick myself everyday & blame myself for not conceiving earlier, when my daughter was born I got into a really weird phase, it was like id turned off sex, I know it's funny, but wot the real weird thing is, is that my daughter is now 6 & decided I wanted another baby now, it's not like I Neva wanted another bub I just.......I don't no, (i lost that feeling until not long ago) I was obsesst to conceive, everyone around me was falling pregnant, it seemed they were getting wot i wanted & it wasn't fair!! i was getting really resentful, I just hope I haven't stuffed up my chances in getting my BFP & it's not to late, I've just turned 30 & not getting younger, I just try not to think about ttc much or try not to make sex about just ttc as he just thinks I'm having sex just to get preg!! sorry for being abit long & thanx for listening! (reading) :)) xox

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« Reply #11 on: February 16, 2012, 08:51:24 AM »
Dani don't beat yourself up! You ant control the way your body works or how you felt in the past!
I've been trying for 5 months now and I know it's nothing at all but it feels like an eternity! People keep telling me that the more I relax and stop thinking about it the more likely it is to happen, but it's so hard to do that!!

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« Reply #12 on: February 16, 2012, 09:27:41 AM »
Omg I'm also so sick of hearing just stop thinking about it and let it happen and it will HELLO EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!!! and it def is not your fault keep your heads up we will all get out BFP sooner or later we just need to stay positive keep our heads up (if religious pray i know I pray every night) and we all def wanna be here for you and congradulate you when you get your bfp's :) ladies lets keep this thread going I don't know about you but hearing these stories makes me feel a bit better and venting to woman who actually feel what I feel
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« Reply #13 on: February 16, 2012, 09:59:38 AM »
I have pcos too! We have only been trying for 4 months and nothing yet. I had all the blood tests which came back that I ovulated. Now I have had a ruptured ovarian cyst and found out my uterus is backward. I always thought that it wouldn't be hard, but now I know it will be... I'm really scared that it's never gonna happen! All I want in life is to be a mother! Good luck ladies!
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« Reply #14 on: February 16, 2012, 10:42:32 AM »
My hubby & I have been TTC our second. I was diagnosed with pcos but my dr never put me on meds. We moved & I went to another dr last month. He put me on metformin & clomid. I'm hoping AF doesn't come next week! Sometimes I feel like giving up & maybe just adopting. I tell my hubby I get so down each time I get a bfn!! And I hate when I hear/see girls getting pg & they don't care for the baby or hurt the baby. I don't understand how women like that can get pg so easy when they don't deserve it. Ugh it's so frustrating but gonna keep praying. But I am thankful he blessed me with one already & if I do get a bfp I honestly don't care what gender it is as long as baby is healthy. Sending baby dust to everyone