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Offline Amymaarre

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How do move when im on top?
« on: February 28, 2012, 05:27:38 am »
Okay well, me and my boyfriend (who is also my first) have been engaging in sexual activity about 3 times now, all these times in which he has been on top, but the last time we did it he put me on top but I felt foolish because i had absolutely no idea how to move my pelvis. I wasn't nervous or anything I was more so just embarrassed that I had no idea what to do .. Can someone please help me?

Offline What?

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #1 on: February 28, 2012, 08:01:40 am »
Unfortunately there is not one answer to your question. They're a few ways you could move, it all depends on what works for both of you. A very important part of intimacy is communication. Talk to him!!! 

Offline Blondie95

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #2 on: February 29, 2012, 04:52:23 am »
Maybe you could try thrusting? Or moving in an upward downward motion?

Offline Love_dont_hate

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #3 on: February 29, 2012, 06:48:50 pm »
Girl you can't just be bouncing up and down, (excuse my language) you've gotta grind on top of him circle your hips, kinda like you're dancing, hope this helps! X

Offline jully25

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #4 on: March 01, 2012, 01:19:14 am »
The best part of being on top during sex is that you have all of the control.. So take advantage! Move in ways that feel good to you and it will be pleasurable for both of you..

Offline Sly1986

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #5 on: March 01, 2012, 04:09:33 am »
Just like you are dancing. Roll your hips back and forth and move your butt around like in a circle.

Offline Jabberwockybrie

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Re: How do move when im on top?
« Reply #6 on: March 01, 2012, 06:22:30 am »
Have fun and communicate with him! This is key to any healthy relationship in and put of the bed room :-) go slow at first for your comfort and he will help move things along !