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Offline Rain6

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Teen mums!
« on: May 26, 2012, 09:15:39 PM »
Hey everyone! I have been ttc for 10 months now I'm 19 almost 20 and engaged. I just wanted to hear some stories of young mums, and what it's like? I've always wanted to be a young mum, also if anyone has any proven tips on ttc? Thanks heaps in advance :)

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Re: Teen mums!
« Reply #1 on: May 26, 2012, 09:58:20 PM »
I'm also 19 and TTC ! I'm engaged and live with my man :) we got pregnant when I was 18 (unplanned) we had an mc in feb and now were trying again! this was our first official month and I just got af so hoping next months more successful! iv also always wanted to be a young mum :)

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« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2012, 10:43:19 PM »
Hey kiiara, I had a mc in march :( I started thinking I was infertile but at least I know I'm not. Af is due in 6 days. Have u been ttc for long? I just bought an ovulation kit so I'll see how that goes next month :) were r u from?

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« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2012, 10:58:04 PM »
there do horrible :( well properly just this month but we haven't used protection since the mc. I'm thinking about getting some opk's might see how I go this month n if not I'll get some! I'm from Australia how about u?

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« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2012, 11:12:16 PM »
I'm from Australia too, sunshine coast. Yeah it's so hard after a mc, but it puts in perspective how much u want one! Do u find it hard cause your young to keep coming up with excuses not to drink etc ha. Have u and your partner been together long :) its good to know im not the only 19 y.o ttc !

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« Reply #5 on: May 26, 2012, 11:24:01 PM »
I'm in victoria! yeh it is really hard but we know how much we want a bub now! we've been engaged since october n together officially for almost 2 years n then we were seeing each other for a while before that! what about u? do u guys live together? I haven't drank in ages! I got it out of the way when I was 14/15 n don't go clubbing anymore so I don't really have to worry! yeh it's nice having someone else who's similar age and TTC!

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« Reply #6 on: May 27, 2012, 12:49:06 AM »
Yeah we live together. We've been together for 5 years only engaged for about 3 months. Yeah Im over going out to, although we have a big social group, so BBQ etc and everyone drinks, I've used so many excuses like detoxing on antibiotics haha we've wanted kids since we were 16 but knew we were too young. Have u planned at date for the wedding, it's a bit hard when your ttc ha

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Re: Teen mums!
« Reply #7 on: May 27, 2012, 01:00:27 AM »
nice! yeh we've lived together for 18 months maybe just recently moved 3 hours away from our home town! I love our house tho it's so cute! yeh we still do BBQs etc but I'm not a big drinker so I just have water or juice! a few of our older friends have kids so not everyone drinks which is good! iv always wanted kids! I have a puppy n hes good practice as he's always so sick lol!

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Re: Teen mums!
« Reply #8 on: May 27, 2012, 06:54:52 PM »
Nawwww cute, dogs are actually good Practise haha do u know what u wanna have first, either boy or girl? I wish straight after you bed u know whether your pregnant Or not, hate the tww. Only 5 days too go :) have 0 symptoms though!

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« Reply #9 on: May 27, 2012, 07:02:30 PM »
yeh he's gorgeous!! umm I don't mind what about u? I know the tww is horrible! I feel like all I do is wait so frustrating! when are u planning to test?

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Re: Teen mums!
« Reply #10 on: May 27, 2012, 07:06:57 PM »
I'm 19 (20 September 11) I had a mc in march (the day my nan died) and I've just had an ectopic removed yesterday that ruptured my left tube so that and the baby were removed. I didn't know I was pregnant because I had what I thought was af 1 week ago (though spotting never stopped)
I'm from gold coast qld australia. I'm scared that I'll continue to loose babies. I've been trying for 8 months

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« Reply #11 on: May 27, 2012, 07:11:55 PM »
Yeah we don't really mind. I think my bf would love a little girl, but wouldn't mind. We have a name picked for a boy though. I'm really bad at testing early haha. But I ordered my tests online this time, so hopefully they don't arrive for another 5 days. I'm really nervous to get a positive though because of the last mc :( you would know what I mean x

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Re: Teen mums!
« Reply #12 on: May 27, 2012, 07:17:39 PM »
My bf would love a girl too :)

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« Reply #13 on: May 27, 2012, 07:29:03 PM »
Yeah it's funny, I thought most men would want their boy first. Are u doing anything in particular to try for a girl? Or do u not really mind. I saw this chart the other day and u look at your age and what month u concieved and they tell u what your going to have. I thought nothing of it but a lot of people said it works.

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« Reply #14 on: May 27, 2012, 07:45:22 PM »
I'm not doing anything in particular. I'm happy for a boy or girl. I have to wait two cycles though because I've just had an ectopic that ruptured so I lost my left Fallopian tube and my baby. I didn't know I was pregnant even though we've been trying for 8 months. Im still in hospital. This was my second loss in 3 months. It's heartbreaking :(