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Other => Relationships => Topic started by: charg on November 04, 2018, 11:09:48 PM

Title: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
Post by: charg on November 04, 2018, 11:09:48 PM
I lost my virginity. I’m kinda freaking out, not about the actual loss of it, but about the possibility of being pregnant. We both had 100% consent and know the chances and risks of sex, even though we’re young. I know the chances are high-ish. But, my boyfriends condom broke. He hadn’t came, however pre-cum or pre-ejaculation was in th condom. He pulled out right away. It hasn’t even been a day, but i have high anxiety. My period should start on the 12th, keeping you guys posted.
Title: Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
Post by: Hue on November 07, 2018, 07:57:26 AM
I’d take a morning after pill ASAP but that may be too late now. You need to be on birth control now that you’re sexually active because accidents do happen. Nonetheless you still need to use a condom every time you have sex so you don’t put yourself at complete risk of getting sexually transmitted diseases. I hope nothing went through and you’ll be fine
Title: Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
Post by: charg on November 08, 2018, 03:41:07 PM
It for sure is too late for a morning after pill. As much as i’d like to be put on the pill, it isn’t an option for me right now. But just for some relief, you don’t think i’m pregnant right? thanks for responding
Title: Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
Post by: JustPeachy on November 08, 2018, 07:13:17 PM
It’s pretty unlikely that you’re pregnant. You can potentially get pregnant from precum if it contains sperm, but it’s not especially likely. You also were not in a part of your cycle where you would typically be fertile. So, while it may be remotely possible for you to conceive, I wouldn’t worry about it any more than necessary. Just wait for your period and see how it turns out. Maybe review the steps to properly use a condom and be sure that you got everything right. If you don’t use them correctly they will be less effective and more likely to break. Good luck
Title: Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
Post by: charg on November 11, 2018, 11:43:43 PM
It’s pretty unlikely that you’re pregnant. You can potentially get pregnant from precum if it contains sperm, but it’s not especially likely. You also were not in a part of your cycle where you would typically be fertile. So, while it may be remotely possible for you to conceive, I wouldn’t worry about it any more than necessary. Just wait for your period and see how it turns out. Maybe review the steps to properly use a condom and be sure that you got everything right. If you don’t use them correctly they will be less effective and more likely to break. Good luck
thank you,, i know you said not to worry too much but the wait for my period has had me all sorts of stressed. it is hopefully starting tomorrow, if not i don’t know what i’ll do other than freak out.