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« on: February 02, 2017, 06:39:30 PM »
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He's my first love. We met in uni and now we are 23/24.
We broke up once 5 months ago cus I thought he was taking me for granted and we have fallen out of love but he was willing to forgive me and fix things when I wanted to tell him I was sorry for breaking up, that's not how we fix our problems. We have been so happy ever since, at least I thought so.
Few days ago, he broke up with me telling me that he thinks that I'm draining him, that he has fallen out of love, he's more independent now and we have grown apart. He said he thinks it's best if we separate, but I didn't believe him. I thought he was confused like how I was 5 months ago, so I kept asking him, are you sure u want us to sepearate, he insists. I asked him many times before I want to hang up the phone because it came out of the blue.
Two hours later, he calls me and apologizes and says he wasn't thinking straight. He says he still loves me and that he felt we grown out of love but it's actually our relationship has matured. But idk which to believe. He was never the type to have doubts in us. We were talking about getting engaged too this week. Should I give him another chance? My family and friends don't see us working out in the future. But I honestly love him a lot.