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Just for teens / Re: Mommy issues
« on: April 19, 2019, 06:36:28 AM »
That's awful. How can she do that to you?!
It seems you have a toxic mother, the only thing I can think of is meditation. Try to meditate so you get a better perspective about yourself and change your mindset. It may help you accept who you are and not listen to your mother. There are several apps for that, I'm using one called headspace and they ask you what focus you want to give your meditation sessions. I think I remember there was an option about loving yourself. Hope that helps! And your mother is being very mean to you, don't listen to her! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are pretty even if you don't think so!

Relationships / Re: Not ready? (Kinda long but plz respond)
« on: April 07, 2019, 06:40:40 AM »
He sounds like a nice guy for telling you that instead of trying to take advantage of you. I think you should try and be his friend, let him heal and try and help him while he moves on. Don't be his friend with the second intentions of dating him,  as that may make you give advices based on your feelings and you wanting to be with him, just stay friends and see what happens.That is, unless it hurts you too much, in which case I'd recommend you put some distance between you and explain to him that it hurts you to be just his friend and when your feelings calm down then go back and talk to him.

Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 19, 2019, 05:20:33 AM »
You are welcome!!! Best of lucks!!!

Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 18, 2019, 05:24:20 AM »
What a jerk!
Well you coupd always go to therapy, there you may find out exactly why you're feeling the way you do and how to feel better as well. And I'm sorry you feel that way. I hope you recover emotionally soon!

Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 16, 2019, 05:51:33 AM »
Hi! Well first of all I don't understand well why you believe you can't trust your memory. DId you feel weird at those times?

Secondly, yes, You were coerced and pressured. A no is a no, you shouldn't have to insist to not do something, what is wrong with him checking for blood? Listen, you should try to get away from him, don't stay alone with him because he's definitely going too far everytime. I was Coerced into losing my virginity as well, and trust me, you don't want to go through with that guy. He will disturb your vision of sexuality and make you think that behavior Is normal. He's not good for you!

Health / Re: Breast Problems
« on: March 13, 2019, 05:22:44 AM »
I agree with you. She should definitely go but try a different doctor now, a second opinion. I really doubt that it's nothing serious!!

Just for teens / Re: Guy i know is on drugs
« on: March 10, 2019, 07:42:02 AM »
It's a tough one. There's not much you can do unfortunately, because even though it's important to tell him how damaging all these stuff are, he won't stop doing it just because you tell him.

The most responsible thing would be to talk to his parents, but there's always the possibility that the reason he thinks his life is messed up is because his parents are toxic? Maybe you should try to get closer to him so he tells you his story, and do tell him that what he's doing will destroy him, but wait until you hear why "his life is messed up" to decide whether or not you should tell his parents. If I were you i'd also ask my own parents for advice.

Relationships / Re: Am i wrong??
« on: March 08, 2019, 05:22:39 AM »
Not all guys are the same. Maybe you have dated guys who follow a pattern and end up breaking your trust. Try to understand the things that these guys had in common and maybe you'll be able to identify the bad ones from the good ones.

Pregnancy / Re: Cousins alone and pregnant
« on: March 02, 2019, 05:46:24 AM »
Wow, that's such an awful situation :/ maybe she could move on with you? That would probably be a great way to help!

Relationships / Re: My best friend his ex and me
« on: February 15, 2019, 05:31:40 AM »
Also, remember he was in an abusive relationship based on what you describe, so it can be tough for him to get out emotionally at first. Honesty is always the best option, especially since he's your bff. If he's not interested try and stop getting together physically as it could hurt you giving you false hopes. And support him as a friend, he needs help detaching from her.

Relationships / Re: Unhappy relationship.
« on: February 15, 2019, 05:25:42 AM »
It seems you're both unhappy in the relationship, I think that you should try couple's therapy and ig it doesn't work you should break up. Therapy mostly because you have a child together, i think it's important to try every little option before a breakup when a couple has a kid. That is, of course, if he's not abusive in any way, in which case you should break up inmediately

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 05, 2019, 05:21:30 AM »
I understand. You keep the distractions coming until you don't need them! And you're welcome! I'm glad I could help! :)

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 03, 2019, 07:36:53 AM »
It's normal to think that, just try and brush it off and keep distracting yourself until you stop caring about that. It seems now that you'll never stop caring, but you  Also try to hang out with your friends more, so you remember there's others that love you and more people you can have fun with!

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 02, 2019, 05:58:41 AM »
Dedicate your time to discover yourself now! All your time is yours again. Try different activities and you'll see how good days happen again. It will take a while to , but you'll find yourself not thinking about him one day and realise the healing is starting. try distracting yourself in the meantime with your favorite hobbies

Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« on: February 02, 2019, 05:53:15 AM »
I imagine you have done this but, have you told him that? like an actual conversation where he understands this is more than a regular fight. In the end you need to be happy in your  so you should talk about that and actualy work on it together, if you still feel unhappy then maybe you should break up. Because why would you be with someone that doesn't make you happy?

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