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« on: August 09, 2018, 05:28:30 AM »
It's probably that hormonal charge on your body. Bc and plan B all of a sudden...
Plan B on its own is known to cause your body to go crazy with periods and bleedings, and BC is said to take months for your body to adjust. And you are under the effect of both at the same time. I'm not sure, though, if plan B could mess you up for that long, but I think it's possible

Just for teens / Re: I kissed my best friend
« on: August 09, 2018, 05:24:03 AM »
You should tell her exactly what you wrote here. That you didn't feel anything. And yes, when you kiss the right person it gives you butterflies and all those things hahaha, clearly you have no feelings for your friend.

Periods / Re: Late in period and not pregnant HELP!
« on: July 31, 2018, 05:27:08 AM »
How old are you? If you're a teenager, during that time periods get all crazy and that can happen. If not, there are many reasons a period can delay, stress for example. But if you're an adult and want to make sure it's all ok, you should go to an obgyn to get a sonography and other tests to check if it's all normal.

Relationships / Re: I need some girl time
« on: July 31, 2018, 05:24:54 AM »
Yeah he gets upset every time I say no to him. There’s been times I’ve had the word possible day and when he feels like he wants to get sexual, he’ll make an advance. All I need is a hug and he wants sex
I don't think that part of him is normal or acceptable. You've been together for a long time  and up until now it seems he gets upset when you say no but has never forced you (at least from what you write here). I think you should talk to him and if necessary try couple's therapy. I don't know if I'm being too extreme but that overly sexual attitude doesn't seem normal to me. I'm scared it might escalate someday, especially if you two marry!
Also, when he decides he wants to talk and stops being a child, have a serious conversation because what he did that night was the most childish thing ever!

Relationships / Re: I need some girl time
« on: July 30, 2018, 05:22:07 AM »
All this sounded like a "normal" argument I've heard many couples have, except for the part where he got sexual even if you didn't want to. Has anything similar happened before?

Health / Re: What do I do
« on: July 22, 2018, 08:13:34 AM »
Plan B messes up your periods, that's why it was so weird, if that was even a period... check the side effects of the pill, maybe bleeding is a side effect ?

Periods / Re: HELP!!
« on: July 22, 2018, 08:10:38 AM »
It's normal! Relax! Some symptoms don't happen all the time, but nausea during period is completely normal!

Just for teens / Re: The opposite of anorexic
« on: July 22, 2018, 08:09:25 AM »
Being too fat is unhealthy, this is not about accepting aho you are and loving yourself or whatever, she needs to lose weight. You don't have to gain it to make her feel better, she needs to stop feeling sorry for herself and start a diet and exercise, or it could lead to awful health problems later in life, as she is dealing right now with problems of self esteem.
As for your mood, it could be, but I think you'd only know if you get away from her a bit, and check your reactions.

Relationships / Re: Confused
« on: July 21, 2018, 06:02:32 AM »

Look, an erect penis can't exactly cause a girl to be pregnant. What can cause it is pre-ejaculation that comes with an erect penis and that can come at any moment during the act. But for that to happen, you'd need to have direct contact between his penis and your vagina (even without penetration), considering you were on your period, I assume you were clothed (at least with underwear) and his penis didn't touch more than a part of your leg AND you washed your hands, so you're safe!
Darken, "jacking off" is masturbation, in case you were wondering!

I’m in the situation like u said above. It was my last day period and We’ve done direct contact an erect penis and he shove only outside (I’m on top of him), he didn’t penetrate inside. But he ejaculated so sudden, and I’m not sure he manage to avoid ejaculate on my labia minora. Now after one week, my breast feels so tender and it hurts

I don't know when your ovulation starts, but in your case there is a possibility of pregnancy. Although your tender breast are probably paranoia or something else entirely, because if it were pregnancy your symptoms wouldn't show a week after, but more around the time lf month your period should start in.

Funnytime, no one is being rude, we're being realistic. And no one is blaming her, we're giving proper advice.
It is true she could talk to him about and tell her she doesn't like it but the truth is, if that's what he's into, and she's proven not to be into that, their relationship is bound to end at some point. The guy kept going while she was crying! And "apologized" and then forced her to do oral sex to him.
It'd be better to end it before it gets worse, especially considering this was her first experience! It will scar her and if she stays there it could mess up with her vision of sexuality.
Also, saying "she let him do it to her"... that sounds a lot more like being rude about it. She was clearly scared of him being agressive, she states that.

Wow :s listen, now it's likely that he'll try ro get you back. Do NOT stay with him alone anywhere, he proved to be an agressor, whatever he'll want to tell you it has to be in public or just not say it.
You were very strong in breaking up at the right time, not everyone is capable of that!

:( break up with him!! :(

Idk what to do, some people are saying breakup with him, others are saying don’t.
You want to break up with him, he's becoming toxic, i think you should do it.
I have friends who have been and are in toxic relationships and it's hell for them. They try to get out but somehow they can't. You are on your way there. Tristan is starting with your male friends, then it will be your female friends, and the worst part is you wouldn't even notice it until it's done and you're somehow trapped there. Break up unless you want to ruin yourself emotionally. You're still on time!

I sort of understand where you're coming from. With my ex, that wasn't the exact case but he put pressure on me to do things like that, so in the end I gave in without wanting to do stuff.
I think in your case it was rape, you didn't want to do those things and he continued, especially with the BJ, where he wouldn't let you answer before shoving it in your mouth! I think you should tell your mom :/ or a close friend to help you say it to someone, and of course, you should break up. You're with an agressor and you're afraid of him!
Darken, imo she's afraid of saying no :/ Unfortunately, it happens and you find yourself stuck there just agreeing to things to avoid a confrontation.

if Tristan is not letting you speak to your friends, then it's time to break up! If you let him get his way, he'll start controlling every little detail of your life and before you know it you're in a toxic relationship. Also, he's getting a bit more "aggressive" with the physical part or the relationship which is not ok, he should ask you before doing those things.
About Arki, I don't know, try if you want but only you'd know if you want to try or not. What I'm sure of is you need to break up with Tristan. How? I'm no expert but the ideal is to do it in a private place where you can actually talk and he can know why you're doing it.

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