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Relationships / Re: My best friend his ex and me
« on: February 15, 2019, 05:31:40 AM »
Also, remember he was in an abusive relationship based on what you describe, so it can be tough for him to get out emotionally at first. Honesty is always the best option, especially since he's your bff. If he's not interested try and stop getting together physically as it could hurt you giving you false hopes. And support him as a friend, he needs help detaching from her.

Relationships / Re: Unhappy relationship.
« on: February 15, 2019, 05:25:42 AM »
It seems you're both unhappy in the relationship, I think that you should try couple's therapy and ig it doesn't work you should break up. Therapy mostly because you have a child together, i think it's important to try every little option before a breakup when a couple has a kid. That is, of course, if he's not abusive in any way, in which case you should break up inmediately

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 05, 2019, 05:21:30 AM »
I understand. You keep the distractions coming until you don't need them! And you're welcome! I'm glad I could help! :)

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 03, 2019, 07:36:53 AM »
It's normal to think that, just try and brush it off and keep distracting yourself until you stop caring about that. It seems now that you'll never stop caring, but you  Also try to hang out with your friends more, so you remember there's others that love you and more people you can have fun with!

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 02, 2019, 05:58:41 AM »
Dedicate your time to discover yourself now! All your time is yours again. Try different activities and you'll see how good days happen again. It will take a while to , but you'll find yourself not thinking about him one day and realise the healing is starting. try distracting yourself in the meantime with your favorite hobbies

Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« on: February 02, 2019, 05:53:15 AM »
I imagine you have done this but, have you told him that? like an actual conversation where he understands this is more than a regular fight. In the end you need to be happy in your  so you should talk about that and actualy work on it together, if you still feel unhappy then maybe you should break up. Because why would you be with someone that doesn't make you happy?

Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« on: February 01, 2019, 05:43:25 AM »
His cons are not something (I think) that anyone could tell you "yes break up! He's useless!" Because those are normal flaws that anyone could have. Personally I wouldn't take him waking up at that time as not wanting to see you. If he's demotivated it would be smart to try and find out why. Does he hate his job? Money problems? College problems?
I think you should do two things: make a list of things that you wouldn't want to have in a partner and must have's for a partner. Apart from that, help your bf with his demotivation, for that flaw is usually not a con, but an issue he may not be aware about. Help him find out. If that turns out to be him, then go to your list. Evaluate whether he's worth to you, do you really think you could find a better partner? Or is it just the heat of the moment?

Relationships / Re: Who‘s more at fault?
« on: February 01, 2019, 05:31:46 AM »
I think both but in a different way. She is disrespecting her husband, but the guy is disrespecting a relationship. Of course, she is the one who is supoosed to love her husband, the other has no feelings for the husband. but he's selfish enough to not care about destroying a marriage as long as he gets laid.
And if you have feelings for him you better find a way to block them, if he's willing to cheat, he'd probably cheat on you, too.

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: February 01, 2019, 05:24:24 AM »
Mm... maybe try teling them the truth nicely: "I'm sorry, but I need some time to heal from the relationship and unfortunately you guys were a part of it. I don't want you to take it the wrong way, but going to your house and spending time with you makes it harder for me to move on" or something of the sorts.
If they feel offended don't feel bad. It would be selfish not to understand you in this situation.

Periods / Re: Day 3 and still no period
« on: January 31, 2019, 05:30:12 AM »
Hey! Sorry no one replied, personally I didn't know what to tell you, as I don't know much about BC pills.  But for this cycle, if you have taken them correctly then you had protected sex and shouldn't be concerned. I do recommend, if you don't feel comfortable enough using just the pill, that you and your partner use condoms as well.

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: January 31, 2019, 05:26:00 AM »
I don't think so. At least not yet. My ex's family did the same, but you need time to heal and for that, you need distance from all that is him, that includes his family. Besides, he could go home if he knows you're there and catch you by surprise. You don't have to block them from your life, but going to their house and being with them is gonna make the breakup harder for you!

Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« on: January 30, 2019, 05:25:09 AM »
Well you need to distance yourself from him for your own good. How do you plan to do that?

Just for teens / Re: Confusing Relationship
« on: January 27, 2019, 08:24:21 AM »
I think you should just be honest with him. Tell him exactly what you told us: that you don't think this is healthy for you, and that you'd rather go back to being friends.  It seems it's still early in the "relationship", so I think you could save the friendship.

Just for teens / Re: NAKED IN FRONT OF...
« on: January 23, 2019, 05:26:35 AM »
I can't be naked in front of anyone either! So I wouldn't go or I'd go and keep clothes on like the other girls said

Just for teens / Re: Boys. (I know, I ask a lot about them)
« on: January 23, 2019, 05:24:24 AM »
I think you should ask him if you want to! What do you have to lose?

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