That's awful. How can she do that to you?!
It seems you have a toxic mother, the only thing I can think of is meditation. Try to meditate so you get a better perspective about yourself and change your mindset. It may help you accept who you are and not listen to your mother. There are several apps for that, I'm using one called headspace and they ask you what focus you want to give your meditation sessions. I think I remember there was an option about loving yourself. Hope that helps! And your mother is being very mean to you, don't listen to her! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are pretty even if you don't think so!

You are welcome!!! Best of lucks!!!

Hi! Well first of all I don't understand well why you believe you can't trust your memory. DId you feel weird at those times?

Secondly, yes, You were coerced and pressured. A no is a no, you shouldn't have to insist to not do something, what is wrong with him checking for blood? Listen, you should try to get away from him, don't stay alone with him because he's definitely going too far everytime. I was Coerced into losing my virginity as well, and trust me, you don't want to go through with that guy. He will disturb your vision of sexuality and make you think that behavior Is normal. He's not good for you!

It's a tough one. There's not much you can do unfortunately, because even though it's important to tell him how damaging all these stuff are, he won't stop doing it just because you tell him.

The most responsible thing would be to talk to his parents, but there's always the possibility that the reason he thinks his life is messed up is because his parents are toxic? Maybe you should try to get closer to him so he tells you his story, and do tell him that what he's doing will destroy him, but wait until you hear why "his life is messed up" to decide whether or not you should tell his parents. If I were you i'd also ask my own parents for advice.

Wow, that's such an awful situation :/ maybe she could move on with you? That would probably be a great way to help!

It seems you're both unhappy in the relationship, I think that you should try couple's therapy and ig it doesn't work you should break up. Therapy mostly because you have a child together, i think it's important to try every little option before a breakup when a couple has a kid. That is, of course, if he's not abusive in any way, in which case you should break up inmediately

It's normal to think that, just try and brush it off and keep distracting yourself until you stop caring about that. It seems now that you'll never stop caring, but you  Also try to hang out with your friends more, so you remember there's others that love you and more people you can have fun with!

I imagine you have done this but, have you told him that? like an actual conversation where he understands this is more than a regular fight. In the end you need to be happy in your  so you should talk about that and actualy work on it together, if you still feel unhappy then maybe you should break up. Because why would you be with someone that doesn't make you happy?