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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: Today at 10:50:47 AM »
I have miscarried.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: Today at 01:42:36 AM »
It really doesn’t matter how big is a company because when there is unfair treatment and dismissal related to sex, pregnancy/mc, race it is unlawful and they don’t stand much chance. Citizens advice is the best place i think to go to atm and their help is free. You really don’t have anything more to lose if you ask for their advice.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 04:58:32 PM »
When you give a notice in such a situation it is still unlawful dismissal as you had no choice but to leave. The treatment you had whilst employed was also unlawful. Part of my work is to study law and you got a legitimate case here but its up to you to deal with it. I personally wouldn’t let anyone to treat me like this and i would make sure that no one gets treated the same way going forward as it will repeat. I just let you know of the facts. I am sorry this happened to you but you need to know that this can be dealt with.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 01:02:52 PM »
https://www.maternityaction.org.uk/advice-2/mums-dads-scenarios/miscarriage-stillbirth-and-neonatal-death-rights-to-time-off-and-pay-for-parents/ Read this link Settledgirl. You don’t even need to prove unfair dismissal due to pregnancy related issues as it is automatically unlawful.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 12:50:07 PM »
It is unlawful dismissal Settledgirl so it would be impossible not to win! Asking is not gonna hurt anyway. But it’s up to you to check. I personally would.

If you stop bleeding and then start again it could be your period but not necessarily. It will all depend on hcg level. Once you do stop bleeding you can start looking out for ovulation signs. It took me 6w to get my period from the second procedure i had done in hospital but i didn’t need chemo. And it took me nearly 4 months to get my hcg levels to negative.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 11:11:06 AM »
Btw, the periods tend to come back once your levels hit around 50. Some women get it with slightly higher levels. Some have to wait until reach negative but in general it does come back when you are around 50.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 11:09:52 AM »
Settledgirl, I would advise you to contact citizen advice bureau to see if you can make official complaint and if anything can be done. If you have worked there for long enough you could get a very good compensation. Of course if it’s something you don’t want to do then don’t do it. Hope you are in a position to take some break right now before look for new job. You could always apply for jobseekers allowance while you are inbetween the jobs if you need some financial help until you find a new job. Your previous employer sounds absolutely horrible and I am glad you have gotten away from them!

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 14, 2018, 09:08:50 AM »
I think it’s too early for a baby to sit on it’s own this early on as their backs are not strong enough. I have seen so many people put their babies in siting position so early but it is not right and shouldn’t be done until 6m. Of course each parent knows best and will do how they think is right and that is okay but i wouldn’t make and push my baby sit properly on its own before 6m. With proper support and only for short times maybe earlier. Ideally babies should learn how to crawl first and then sit as then their back muscles are strong enough for them to do it themselves but it just doesn’t happen. Each baby progresses in their own speed and unless a doctor suspects something sinister i really wouldn’t worry if baby doesn’t do specific things by specific months. I think it’s the other parents that put pressure on other parents “oh look my baby does this and your doesn’t” and don’t even think about that everyone develops in their own time and there is nothing wrong with that. Missdyan, you are doing just great and your baby is doing just great. Just enjoy every moment and these milestones will come naturally when baby is ready.

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TTC / Re: Mirena fell out
« on: October 14, 2018, 08:58:33 AM »
Cycles can take a year to become regular still can get pregnant during that time.

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 13, 2018, 08:39:22 AM »
I am very sorry to hear that Ria. :-(

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Pregnancy / Re: Suprise i got pregnant!
« on: October 12, 2018, 03:57:45 PM »
Sperm can live up to 5 days and if your cycles are on a shorter side then those would of been your most fertile days!

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 12, 2018, 03:19:54 PM »
If I didn’t mc last time my baby would of been 4m old now too :-( i’m ok Missdyan, thanks, you? I had very little nausea and very rarely up until like 2 days ago and now it’s just awful. Didn’t expect it to start so late! What is your baby up to?

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 11, 2018, 02:07:17 PM »
A93, I am 9+4 based on last 2 scans. How are you doing with newborn and new pregnancy? How far along are you now?

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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: October 11, 2018, 11:51:22 AM »
Still spotting and bleeding here! My next scan is on Monday with epu. Breasts are sore and I don’t really get any cramps and get occassional nausea so all these symptoms seem hopeful.

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TTC / Re: Need advice
« on: October 11, 2018, 06:05:54 AM »
It can take up to a year for cycles to regulate once come off any birth control so I wouldn’t rely on having a regular cycle straight away and would definitely not rely on an app to tell when the next period is due as it is set to a standard cycle. If you had any bleeding whilst using birthcontrol it wasn’t your real period but fake/breakthrough bleeding as a side effect to the birthcontrol. It doesn’t meant that can’t get pregnant. Just watch out for fertile mucus and have regular sex and sooner or later you will get pregnant. Please keep in mind that it is normal to take a year to conceive. Good luck!

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