LinkleBlue is right. It shouldn’t effect your friendship outright saying it. Most friends appreciate honesty with their friends especially when they know it’s hard for them to say.

Just something to bare in mind for the next time. Whoever it is needs to make sure that you're lubricated (wet) before shoving it in, try foreplay, kissing, teasing, oral. You're first experience doesn't have to be that painful. Your mind as well as your body needs to be stimulated and relaxed don't rush, explore each other and enjoy the moment.

I'm not sure about Shortie2210, but as for me, I was wet because of arousal, so that was not the issue. You make it seem like by you saying "You're first experience doesn't have to be that painful" is like we could have avoided it or that it's not normal for some people who have sex for the first time.

I’m a 21 year old college student. Lol. So for my age group, having sex less often is weird or problematic. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion though....

I'm a 19 year old college student and having less sex shouldn't have to do with anything but yourself. I don't even talk about it with anyone and if you find yourself looking at your sex life with scrutiny if it's because you're talking to people about it maybe you shouldn't talk about it. Listen to LinkleBlue because she was right as well.

Just kindly say, "Hey, I don't want to cause any trouble, but I just wanted to let you know that so and so is spreading what you want to keep private. If you choose to do something about it, I would like for my name to not be mentioned." Plain and simple.

Hello! Shoot away : )

Any reason why?

I don't even know. Like I think somewhere she said she had twins. But she was like 13. She said she has a daughter now, but she's like 15? I don't believe it's real just the things that she says.

Thanks for the advice you guys. In the end we broke it off and decided to be friends instead and I’ll just keep it until I feel 100% comfortable with my partner.

I know you said you guys broke it off, but I can finally relate! I had sex for the first time on Thursday, and I swear to God everything you said happened to me! We struggled for a full 15-30 minutes (while laughing the whole time, so it was all good), and it was the most painful thing ever. Then when he did get it in, it hurt for another five minutes then the excruciating pain kinda stopped. I was super sore for two days after that, though. I couldn’t walk right hahahaha.