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Just for teens / Confused as to what my sexuality is.
« on: August 13, 2018, 06:06:14 AM »
I don’t really know how to start this.

Last time I talked about my sexuality, I was convinced that I was Demisexual. (or Asexual)

Until a thought came into my head.
Maybe I’m Bi?

I know Asexual and Bi are two different things, but what I’m basically saying is that I’m confused as what I am.

My sister and mum say I don’t need to label myself, but I strongly disagree.

I feel like if I had an idea of what my sexuality was, and told my mum, (I wouldn’t tell my dad because it’s a weird thing to say) she would laugh at me and call me a silly 12 year old. I know it’s normal to be confused about this at my age. But every time I think about it, it bothers me.

And most of you know I do like guys, but sometimes I just look at a girl and think about kissing them.  And I know a lot of straight girls do this, and it’s dumb, this has only happened about 5 times in my whole life, ( 11,12 years old ) and to be honest, I don’t think I am.

I just need advice in to how to try and get a clearer sight of what I am. Or something that can help me know. Because I don’t think tests online exactly help.

Sorry it’s long, Thank you

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Periods / Re: Should you swim on your period?
« on: August 10, 2018, 07:00:46 PM »
Actually, when your in the water your flow slows down. And if you want to go, go! It’s your choice! Personally, I wouldn’t let my period get in the way of a pool party. Like seriously, your going to have a period for most of your life, don’t let it ruin things. I’m not allowed to wear tampons yet, but my sisters do, so they don’t bleed in the water. But if you  really want to test it, sit in the bath with a tampon in for about an hour and see how it goes.

Sorry, it’s long, hope I helped.

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Just for teens / Re: I kissed my best friend
« on: August 09, 2018, 06:01:45 AM »
Yeah, LinkleBlue is right. And I get what you mean by that feeling. I wish I could get that feeling with boys, but I never do :( maybe I’m supposed to be single forever and have dogs

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Relationships / Re: Anxiety
« on: August 08, 2018, 04:32:38 AM »
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it. So you can assure your self he loves you and only you. I bet he already does but your anxiety is making you doubt.

Hope this helped xx

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Just for teens / Re: Really big crush
« on: August 07, 2018, 07:00:07 AM »
Added information...I made a fool of myself, I kept messaging him stupid stuff. I’m going to message him in the morning blaming it on being tired, but I don’t know if that’ll fix it.  :-[
Maybe say your friend texted him? Or just say you were really bored. MaryKay is right, you couldn’t have dated him anyways...you’ll get over him. You just need to lay back a bit. That’s what I used to do when I had crushes.

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Relationships / Re: I need some girl time
« on: July 31, 2018, 12:16:32 AM »
That’s so stupid! If you want a hug and he gives you more than that,  he obviously shouldn’t get upset when you tell him to stop. You need to talk to him about that. Are you guys talking again?

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Relationships / Re: I need some girl time
« on: July 30, 2018, 02:56:50 AM »
I think you should try and wait for him to talk to you. The next morning if he doesn’t try talking to him again.

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I'm so sorry to burden you ladies with this but... thank you... I've broken up with him since and reprinted him... his court date is tomorrow... he's proceeding to stalk my house and social media... thank you all for being so understanding
Your such a brave girl for doing this. But you might want to make sure your with someone at all times if he’s stalking your house, because what I’ve heard about him, he might try something.

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Entertainment / Re: Any people like Tøp or Panic! At the disco?
« on: July 22, 2018, 07:01:05 AM »
Apparently you have to be 18+ to go to a Panic! At the disco concert.

I’m 15 and I’m going to the one in October, can’t wait >3< MY BEEBO!!!! And the Australian tickets cost AU$105/106, not too bad for a P!ATD concert!!
I can’t go ;-; my parents won’t let me, but good for you!!!

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Funnytime, no one is being rude, we're being realistic. And no one is blaming her, we're giving proper advice.
It is true she could talk to him about and tell her she doesn't like it but the truth is, if that's what he's into, and she's proven not to be into that, their relationship is bound to end at some point. The guy kept going while she was crying! And "apologized" and then forced her to do oral sex to him.
It'd be better to end it before it gets worse, especially considering this was her first experience! It will scar her and if she stays there it could mess up with her vision of sexuality.
Also, saying "she let him do it to her"... that sounds a lot more like being rude about it. She was clearly scared of him being agressive, she states that.
exactly!

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No, your right. But he said talk to him alone. And I will talk to him, but not alone. And I only blocked him because he was spamming me, calling me a f**king idiot, b**ch, I didn’t want to bring it up in the paragraph before, because I thought I’d just ignore it.  I definitely WON’T date Arki straight away, ( or maybe never )Your right it is whoreish. And I wasn’t planning to do so. I was just asking in the future should I.  But maybe I won’t date again in a Long time. I’m unpredictable at this point. I need to get to know Arki, that’ll take about 6 months for me, since he’s changed a lot. And what do you mean I won’t be proud? I personally think it was just a mistake, and it’s not something that you should or shouldn’t be proud of. I’m proud of myself for leaving him, but I feel a little sad because Tristan is just a sensitive person. So I don’t get what you mean by that. I can’t NOT be proud of something that I wasn’t expecting. Because it wasn’t stupid, he helped me open up. Tristan is a good person, but he needs some self control.

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Health / Re: Discharge
« on: July 20, 2018, 07:20:36 AM »
it never really goes away, can get less at menopause, but other than that if you’ve always had it, it’s just what’s normal for you. Unfortunately some women get a lot more than others. I personally get loads, all the time, ive had every test under the sun & it’s just normal for me....annoying but normal
it is annoying! I have to constantly buy liners and wear them, and if I forgot to buy more...I’m basically screwed.

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Oh and btw, in a paragraph I said Arki called me Fat Sophie. So if your wondering, my name isn’t Sophie, it’s Sophia  :P and thanks again everyone. Tristan texted me and asked me if we could talk about it somewhere, so I just blocked him. But then somehow he texted me again.
So then I blocked him for the second time, but he can still talk to me

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Wow :s listen, now it's likely that he'll try ro get you back. Do NOT stay with him alone anywhere, he proved to be an agressor, whatever he'll want to tell you it has to be in public or just not say it.
You were very strong in breaking up at the right time, not everyone is capable of that!
I’ll make sure I’ll do that, thank you :). Thanks everyone for the advice, it does really help.

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Pregnancy / Re: Could I be pregnant??
« on: July 19, 2018, 04:45:23 AM »
I recommend taking a pregnant tests first. If it says negative, but you still have the symptoms, maybe see a doctor.

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