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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: Today at 10:00:05 AM »
 Hey ladies. Sorry I have been AWOL. My app will not let me on on my new phone so I've had to come on the actual website. Everything seems to be going fine I have had nausea but not actually being sick and the past 2 weeks I have been exhausted. I am sleeping or wanting to sleep all the time at the minute. My bump also appeared last week and is really big for how far I am. People have started to notice and a customer at work even asked what I'm having and was shocked that I'm only 10 +4. I am worrying a bit about it as even if baby is big I shouldn't be as big as I am now but have my scan on 30th and consultant on the 4th. I am trying to think positive so we have been buying a few things in the sale and putting them in storage. How's everyone else feeling?

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 28, 2018, 06:33:33 AM »
Hi guys hope you all had a good Christmas. Ours was nice and quiet but since then the nausea has really kicked in. My cousin also announced on Christmas day via fb that she is pregnant. She hasn't even told family first she found out on Christmas eve told her parents then announced on Christmas day. Some how she knows she is due a week after me but not sure if she's just tried to work it out herself or what. I know I am pregnant and do feel lucky but it has annoyed me as I feel like she has took it away from me if that makes sense and they fact she's told the whole world so soon I feel scared for her she's only been with her partner a few months and got made redundant in September so she's currently not in a great situation in my eyes. I know everyone is different and sorry for the rant it's just really got to me. My son would have been 6 this year which is just mad to think about I honestly couldn't imagine it and find it hard to imagine what he would even look like now.
Nikkilou I have had them dreams I had one a few months ago and for about 2 days I was in a mood with my oh cause even though I knew it was a dream it felt real and still really hurt me.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 24, 2018, 04:46:48 PM »
Thanks guys. Had a relaxed night had a Chinese in the spirit of Christmas eve and been sat watching telly. I am 7 weeks today.
Merry Christmas once again.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 24, 2018, 07:22:35 AM »
Mahw, on my group a lot of people have said about back pain in the early days but it's not something I have experienced.

We had our scan this morning measuring a few days behind but he said it's nothing to worry about and most likely due to baby being so small at this stage it's normal to measure up to 5 days earlier. Baby had a strong heartbeat so we are over the moon and its starting to feel a bit more real a long way to go but I'm so glad we have got this far. Next scan is 30th January then meet our consultant 4th Feb and see midwife again end of Feb. But for now just voi g to relax and stay positive and book a week of work for January as its been a busy few weeks.

Merry Christmas everyone xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 22, 2018, 11:08:30 AM »
Thanks justpeachy I am trying not to worry as much as possible. I'm really sore today so think I might call the maternity ward if it doesn't go by morning. If I'm sat down it's fine and just little cramps but when doing things I'm getting really harsh pains. Yeah I will be induced between 38 and 40 weeks with it being ivf pregnancy they don't like you going over the due date. I meet my consultant on 4th Feb and will be consultant led throughout my pregnancy but still will see my midwife just they won't get the main decisions. My mum came to se me today whilst working and let slip in front of my partners little brother but he is so happy about it.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 22, 2018, 07:32:14 AM »
Yeah I'm so bloated too I look huge. Any of yous the same or is it more of a ivf thing with the medications as I'm still on pessaries.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 22, 2018, 05:20:39 AM »
Yeah lots of people say that it's still worrying when they go through. Just had a letter to say I will be meeting one of my consultants on 4th Feb too which I wasn't expecting to meet till after my 20 week scan. Not sure which it will be it says anti natal ward so thinking it may be about being induced or maybe il just see the one for all 4 things?

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 22, 2018, 03:55:30 AM »
Yeah that's my one at clinic. My 12 week scan is on the 30th Jan. Think baby is giving me pay back for saying I wasn't having any symptoms. Started with shooting pains in my nipples last night and then had cramps all morning. But least I haven't had sickness.

« on: December 22, 2018, 02:27:22 AM »
Hey I had ivf so not the same but similar. I took preconception tablets as did my partner we had been on them 2 years before we started ivf. I also ate healthy so I was getting lots of natural vitamins. Once treatment started I took things easy had time off work and ate what I wanted as I just wanted to be conformable. Hope this helps.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 21, 2018, 03:02:06 PM »
My scan is the same day Angela but that's my 12 week scan. I am so nervous for the scan Tuesday it's all I can think about. Still not having any symptoms at the minute which doesn't help. Im just so tired all the time and been on a 10 hour shift today which has killed me so far and still 2 hours to go.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 21, 2018, 04:17:28 AM »
Ah I went and seen my midwife at like 5 weeks. I expected them to say to wait a while but they just gave me the appointment. Just make sure your not worrying too much.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 21, 2018, 02:42:02 AM »
Ah so atlas no one will suspect anything. Yeah think I'm just going too have a little slice as it's only in the frosting too and it's mixed with chocolate frosting.

If you are worried I would call epu or your maternity ward. We have a open pass to the maternity ward so that A&E can't fob us off.

Even considering booking in with the midwife early then if you explain thinks to them they may get your early scans booked in anyway. I'm still so nervous about mine on Monday. I mean I know we ruled out ectopic and that baby was measuring fine but im so scared there won't be a heart beat.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 21, 2018, 02:05:07 AM »
Hey ladies sorry for being inactive my phone completely died on me so I've ended up having gone to pay to upgrade early. Anyway Angela I hope the service and saying goodbye really helped you to have a bit more closure, not that it seems to be the right word but nothing does.
I get the not feeling excited part you have been through a lot this year so it makes sense but try think positive. Honestly I'm still not as excited as I thought I'd be as I'm too scared something will happen but I'm enjoying knowing I'm pregnant and the little feeling. It's strange but I'm still hoping I get morning sickness which everyone tells me I'm weird but just feel like I'd feel more pregnant if I did.
Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy this time and try and enjoy Christmas knowing you have the positive.
Also I know we're not allowed to drink during pregnancy which doesn't bother me, I have my non alcohol processco ready for Christmas meal but do you think I'd be allowed a small slice of baileys cake? I don't want to harm the baby but we couldn't get it last year so I'm dying to try a bit

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 18, 2018, 03:16:28 PM »
thanks ladies its actually been a lot better today and not sure it was a head cold as people have been saying they are the same on my group and its actually a pregnancy symptom. I am a bit worried today as I haven't sneezed at all and I haven't had any cramps today so worried baby has stopped growing or that I am miscarrying. No blood or anything though so really don't know what to think.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: December 18, 2018, 02:13:07 AM »
How far would you be about at the minute Mahw? Xx

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