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TTC / HELP! Advice needed
« on: October 31, 2017, 04:49:48 PM »
Does anyone else out there have a hubby that refuses to have a conversation about trying for a baby.

My husband and I have been married almost a year but we have been together for almost 11 years now. I have always been honest with him about wanting a family.

I raised the topic in casual conversation a couple of months ago and he said to leave it until October because he was stressed out with work, so I did.


I asked him about it today and his response was “it’s not something you plan” and that was it. He is not prepared to discuss it any further.

I’m heart broken at his response. I am not getting younger and I have always for some reason had this gut instinct that I may never be able to conceive. We have never tried so I don’t have any grounds for believing this but if we don’t then we might lose out on the chance all together which is my biggest fear.

I should probably add that my husband is quite a bit older than me.

I can’t help but feel very hurt. Is this his way of saying he doesn’t want a baby with me? Any advice you can give will be greatly appreciated.

I love him to bits and I am totally committed to him and our marriage - it’s for life. I just don’t know how we move on from this point though.

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