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Just for teens / Confused as to what my sexuality is.
« on: August 13, 2018, 06:06:14 AM »
I don’t really know how to start this.

Last time I talked about my sexuality, I was convinced that I was Demisexual. (or Asexual)

Until a thought came into my head.
Maybe I’m Bi?

I know Asexual and Bi are two different things, but what I’m basically saying is that I’m confused as what I am.

My sister and mum say I don’t need to label myself, but I strongly disagree.

I feel like if I had an idea of what my sexuality was, and told my mum, (I wouldn’t tell my dad because it’s a weird thing to say) she would laugh at me and call me a silly 12 year old. I know it’s normal to be confused about this at my age. But every time I think about it, it bothers me.

And most of you know I do like guys, but sometimes I just look at a girl and think about kissing them.  And I know a lot of straight girls do this, and it’s dumb, this has only happened about 5 times in my whole life, ( 11,12 years old ) and to be honest, I don’t think I am.

I just need advice in to how to try and get a clearer sight of what I am. Or something that can help me know. Because I don’t think tests online exactly help.

Sorry it’s long, Thank you

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Hey guys, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two months, but I want to break up with him. If you guys know about Tristan, when I met him, he was unstable. He’s so much better now, but he’s obsessed with me.

 He won’t let me talk to my guy friends, he always wants to kiss me, the other day he was kissing me and he nearly pulled my top up. He even tried to kiss me with tounge. gross if you ask me. I’m literally 12, it’s gross.

(This is relevant)
Two months ago, about 10 days after me and Tristan started dating. My primary school bully came back from military school. (He was mean to me from the first year of pre-school to year 4, he was shipped off to military school in year 5, he wasn’t a TERRIBLE bully, but I hated him )

 He did so many things to me ( first year of pre-school, threw my favorite crayon over the fence, ( it was black ) year two of pre-school, tripped me over, year three of preschool burned my eyes with soap. Year one, spat in my face, year two always insulting me, well he would insult me all the time in pre-school through out primary school.....year three somehow made my crush move schools ( he liked me back, we liked eachother since pre-school) And I’m year four, unscrewed every nail and bolt in my chair and desk, I fell over, sprained my ankle, then called me fat Sophie.

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Just for teens / Friends.
« on: June 27, 2018, 05:57:06 AM »
I feel so neglected by my two friends. Idk what to do. They are saying they are doing nothing wrong, but they are. I can’t find new ones, because I love my friends. And I can’t cry, and I really want to, and I’m freaking out....Help Please....

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Hey, I’m 12 years old. I have my boyfriend, and he recently turned 13.

   At his birthday party I was just saying bye to him before I left, and I kissed him, but then he pulled me closer and we kissed about 20-25 times? ( it lasted five minutes) I just feel weird. It was great and all, but am I supposed to make out for that long at my age???



My sister is 6 years older than me, and when she was in year seven they were saying ICUP, but when I’m in year seven they are sending nudes and crap. I haven’t told my friends about this because since only one of them are dating someone ( they haven’t kissed yet ) I know they’ll be judgemental. ( I haven’t told anyone actually)


 What should I do? Did I do something wrong?

 FYI apparently in my country ( Australia ) people actually date younger than other countries...

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Relationships / Comfort
« on: June 02, 2018, 06:43:03 PM »
Hey guys,

I lost a friend recently, and I went to her grave. I’ve never been the one to cry. I can’t remember the last time I cried. When I was standing in front of her grave Tristan said “ do you need a hug “ and I couldn’t look him I the eye or I would start crying. So he came up and hugged me and I just bursted into tears. Ever since I’ve been more involved in Tristan’s life I’ve been more emotional, and I’m not used to it. All this comfort feels so new. What’s wrong with me?

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Health / Could someone tell me what a Pap test is?
« on: May 30, 2018, 06:35:09 AM »
I just want to know what a Pap test is. They say it’s when they put this weird stick up your vagina. You do it at the age of twenty I think? I just wanted to know what it was because my mum was talking to Tristan’s uncles girlfriend.  ( his uncles like 21 )  and they were talking about it because she’s 20.  Please answer if you can.

     

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Just for teens / Making out
« on: May 20, 2018, 03:44:05 AM »
Sorry for posting so much ( not going to lie, I’ll probably be posting more ) but I’ve been wondering, is it okay to make out at my age? I’m not thinking of it, for me...like I literally just started dating Tristan, but:

What age is appropriate?

And how many months until you should?

 I don’t feel pressured to do it, but some people in my year make out. Any opinions?

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Just for teens / Help
« on: May 16, 2018, 04:55:25 PM »
There’s something wrong with Tristan. He was sick yesterday, so I went to his house that afternoon. But when I walked in his room everything was scattered around.....that’s not like Tristan. He was sitting on his couch with his hands on his head. He started talking crazy like “ I can’t eat or sleep without seeing you, it’s like if I haven’t seen you I go crazy. “ about 3 weeks ago his therapist said he had Mobo phobia I think it was. ( the fear of being alone ) he seemed so normal before now....what do I do? He wouldn’t say something like that, and I know he wouldn’t do anything to me

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Just for teens / Is it okay?
« on: May 09, 2018, 02:21:15 AM »
Sorry!!! I always post a lot, but I have a few questions about dating. (keep in mind I’m 13 next year, and he’s 13 this june)

• Is it okay to kiss? What type?
• How do you even kiss?

• Should we hold hands and hug?

• should I have days to hang out with him alone instead of my friends, and his friends? (We’re one group)

And what am I supposed to do? I don’t really know how to be a girlfriend :/

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Just for teens / I want to, but I don’t know if it’s worth it.
« on: May 06, 2018, 01:52:39 AM »
I’m sorry, I’ve been posting A lot lately....Tristan asked me out. Two nights ago, when we went to an ice cream shop. He said he can give me time. So I said I’d talk to him when I’ve made my decision. I want to date him, I really do. But my dad said if I’m going to be in a relationship, He has to meet the guy first. He actually already knows Tristan, since our family are friends, but Tristan is depressed right now, so I don’t think my dad would want me to date him. But Tristan’s getting better, he smiles and laughs now, he isn’t pale anymore from the cutting. (he doesn’t cut anymore) He doesn’t sleep in class, he does his homework and he doesn’t cry anymore. And I know I should tell my dad how he’s better, but my dad doesn’t listen. What should I do? Should I talk to my dad when he comes home today, and talk to him about it?

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Entertainment / Any people like Tøp or Panic! At the disco?
« on: April 29, 2018, 09:34:53 PM »
Hey! I just wanted to see if there are any smol beans, or beebo lovers out there! I also like some songs by Melanie Martinez and mcr...or any drama with the singers I’d like to know about?

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Just for teens / Is He Lying?
« on: April 29, 2018, 06:31:13 AM »
Okay, I have talked about this boy in another post..if you don’t know who he is, read constant bad luck for the whole story. My friend Tristan and obviously his siblings and mum went to another state to get his parents marriage certificate, so they could get a divorce. Every time I ask him if he’s okay, he says “ yeah “ or “ I’m actually happy “ don’t let me forget “ I’ve always hated my dad “ I feel like he’s lying about almost everything. Lying about doing his homework, ( he is really smart, he skipped year seven, or six, he’s in year eight now, I’m in year seven ) every time I try and bring up if he’s okay, he sighs or changes the subject like “ you look pretty today “ or springs my curls up and down. I don’t know why he just suddenly stopped opening up about things... any advice, please?

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Just for teens / Constant bad luck.
« on: April 18, 2018, 11:40:16 PM »
Well, let me just start off with:

 There’s this guy, his names Tristan. He was my preschool best friend, and he moved away after preschool. I saw him again September 2017.

 We started talking, and October 9th he told me he liked me. I was 11 at the time and he was 12, so we weren’t going to date. After 4 months he had to go back to the country he was born in (France) so we just stopped talking. He came back 3 weeks later, and said he couldn’t stay  there because his dad got a promotion from his old job.  (his dad is really good at his job) we started talking again but then he tried to kiss me two weeks ago, so I just ran away and cut him off.

Before hand he was in a wheel chair because he fell down a bunch of stairs or something. So I found out he cuts himself, and he cut a vain so he had to go to the hospital. so I asked him why he cuts him self over text. His exact words “ my parents go though my phone, and I can’t tell you, not with my dad around “  the next day I went to the hospital and got him some things because I felt bad for just cutting him off over a stupid kiss. He told me he saw his dad in bed with another woman. He told his mum about it but she already knew, she stayed with his dad because of him, his brother and sister. He confronted his dad about it and a lot of crap happened. his 22 year old brother threw his dads things out of the house. And his dad just left.

 It’s really bad because this all happened just 48 hours ago. I went to visit him at the hospital today. He was in an isolation room (I don’t know why) and then for some reason, I took off my mask and kissed him. And the thing is, I wasn’t even thinking of doing that, I just did. I volunteered to go to therapy with him. And he seems okay now. He’s leaving the hospital in 2 days. (I hope I didn’t catch anything from him, when I told that plastic thing off my head) I kind of feel disgusting for doing that. It’s not something I would ever do. It was only a peck, but I think it was kind of inappropriate. I just don’t know what’s going on with him. All this happened, and he’s just all normal about it.

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Just for teens / Discharge
« on: April 17, 2018, 03:29:56 AM »
Sorry to be gross guys, I know discharge is normal, and it is normal to get a lot of it. But why do I actually get a lot of discharge, and what is discharge. I’ve looked it up on google, but it has more than one answer, and I’m very confused

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Just for teens / High school boys.
« on: April 13, 2018, 09:51:01 PM »
Hello, I just want to talk about the boys in my year. There is this boy, and I think he’s kinda cute. I don’t want to date him ( basically because I’m 12, and because it’s kind weird how he’s shorter than me.) and he can also draw. (he’s amazing!) But then I literally have a crush on another kid. But when he’s around he literally doesn’t look at me. And then there’s this other kid that annoys the crap out of me, but he shows interests in me, but then there’s another girl I think he likes that’s my friend.....

 All of this is stupid because I feel like a sl*t for liking three boys.

I’ve liked about 5-6 people in my life (not including these boys) because I thought I was ugly ( I was a fat kid, with cringy braids, plus my braces were messed up and I had only one I brow,didn’t really care that much though)

puberty hit me and now I’m not ugly anymore. But I’ve become more insecure. I don’t actually know if I really like these people, because trust me, they are NOT the first thing I think about in the morning. And I don’t get chills around them of anything. And advice on how to know if I really like them or if they like me ( sorry, it’s really long ) 

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