Can stress from pms make your period come later? I know regular stress can, but I don’t have anything to be stressed about, so I know it’s from pms. I’m 3 days late on my period, and it’s never been this late other then me being regularly stressed.

Ok, yes, this is another topic about boys, but it’s different this time! This is about a boy I’ve liked for a year now. I’ve been trying to get the courage to get his number, but fail every time. I ended up finding him on Facebook and then messaging him there saying, “Hi, I’m trying to be better friends with the friends I have now, and I thought I’d start with you. “ I’ve known him my whole life, and I’ve kinda done stuff I regret in the past, like our mom’s saying that I use to kiss and hug him when we were younger. He’s super quiet, and I’m super loud. I’m just trying to be more friendly, so in the future when I can date, I’ll be able to date him, and he might like me. Any advice on this whole situation?

So, there’s this girl at my church, and all of the adults in my life think we’re friends. This girl, oh my gosh, will not leave me alone. She is so clingy, and then she complains about another girl being clingy to her. All she does is talk about her boyfriend and her crush (not the same people at all. She’s also has had probably 15 boyfriends in the past). Me and my best friend both think she’s annoying, and my mom and her mom (the annoying person’s mom) keep setting up times where we can hang out, and I only agree because it’s easier for my mom because she doesn’t have to drive me to places if I hang out with the girl. I tried to go to a theme park for my birthday, and this girl HAD to come along, she was so excited to come with me that she talked about it everyday. I don’t know how to stop her from hangin out with me, she’s 13, and I just don’t like her being around me but everyone thinks we’re friends. PLEASE HELP!!!!

So, I have this guy friend who liked for a week or two, but then I figured out he had a girl friend so I kind of was in denile of if I like him or not and ended up not liking him anymore. Yesterday I was taking to him, and I made a stupid mistake saying that “I don’t like being ignore and would just appreciate it if he could tell me if I did something wrong.” (I had messaged him about 4 ones before and he never replied, and it had been a few days) He proceeded to tell me he was hanging out with his girlfriend, shows me a picture with a ring on her finger (might have been a class ring? Definitely not a wedding ring), and says she’s the love of his life, and it pretty much felt like he stabbed me with a knife, which made me think I still like him. But then we had a whole conversation about how he plans to marry her and he loves her, I then had to make an excuse because I was super embarrassed and told him that I was feeling a bit depressed (which I have been the past few days), I asked him if we could forget I said anything about me being ignored and he said no. We didn’t talk after that, and I think I just screwed everything up. Please help.

So, I’ve really liked this guy for a little while, and I mean, REALLY like him, he’s the first guy I’ve ever had butterflies in my stomach when thinking about him. He had asked me if I liked him yesterday, and I said no...because he has a gf. He’s the first guy I can talk to and not feel stupid around. I don’t want to break them up, but just typing this whole thing out, I’m thinking about him and can’t stop smiling. Everyone who knows I like him tells me to make his gf break up with him, but I’m not that kind of person. I’m also not allowed to date until I’m 18 (almost 16 now.). The whole point of this is this: WHAT IN THE WORLD SHOULD I DO?! Every second of the day I went to message him, but have to keep my phone in my room so I don’t. This has gotten out of control and I need help!

I’m done with life! I have tried and tried to stay calm, but it never works! I always get yell at and end up crying! And these past few days have been the worst! People are being jerks to me at work, someone broke something that was mine (then lied about it), my parents are making me switch jobs, when I somewhat like the one I have (even though there are jerks here), and my brother keeps getting me in trouble at home for no reason! Everything just ends up with the me wanting to just die! I know hints will get better later, but not many things are keeping me alive right now.

This isn't a question, just a note and advice for people. I realize that a lot of girls (including me) don't think they're good enough, for a boy, for friends sometimes, to be seen in public, and more. Some of the issues might be because they think they're too fat, or ugly, which like I said before, I'm one of these people. It's hard to take advice on this subject, I've been told by a couple of people multiple times that I'm beautiful (my best friend and someone at my church), and I don't believe them, but I got to thinking, I never told them about me thinking that I was ugly, so, why would they just random bring it up, because I am, I may not see it, but they do. What I mean is, even if you don't feel beautiful or see yourself as beautiful, you are! Inside and out! Even if you feel you need to impress a guy and change things about yourself, there is only one you, only you can be who you are. If the guy your trying to impress doesn't see how beautiful you are, inside or out, then he's not worth it! No matter how ugly you may think you are, you are always beautiful to the one you're meant to be with in the future, and I know that may seem far away, but it'll come fast enough, enjoy life as you can in the moment. Soon you'll be 30, wishing you were young again, don't regret not being able to have fun as a kid, be yourself! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! <3