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Relationships / Re: First time
« on: December 04, 2018, 06:39:56 PM »
Just something to bare in mind for the next time. Whoever it is needs to make sure that you're lubricated (wet) before shoving it in, try foreplay, kissing, teasing, oral. You're first experience doesn't have to be that painful. Your mind as well as your body needs to be stimulated and relaxed don't rush, explore each other and enjoy the moment.

I'm not sure about Shortie2210, but as for me, I was wet because of arousal, so that was not the issue. You make it seem like by you saying "You're first experience doesn't have to be that painful" is like we could have avoided it or that it's not normal for some people who have sex for the first time.

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Just for teens / Re: First time having sex
« on: December 04, 2018, 06:30:56 PM »
I had sex for the first time the other week. I’ve had it 2 times since then. It hurts everytime and I start bleeding. Is it normal for it to hurt everytime even though I’ve had sex 2 times since? Also is it normal to bleed?
It hurt super bad my first time, but only for like 15 minutes. Does it hurt the whole time for you? I've had sex only once, so I don't know if it'll hurt again or not.

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Relationships / Re: How many times should you have sex with your partner
« on: December 04, 2018, 06:19:12 PM »


I’m a 21 year old college student. Lol. So for my age group, having sex less often is weird or problematic. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion though....



I'm a 19 year old college student and having less sex shouldn't have to do with anything but yourself. I don't even talk about it with anyone and if you find yourself looking at your sex life with scrutiny if it's because you're talking to people about it maybe you shouldn't talk about it. Listen to LinkleBlue because she was right as well.

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Relationships / Re: Meeting new guys
« on: December 04, 2018, 06:13:37 PM »
LinkleBlue is right. When you get close to someone, you love their personality, and then the looks you didn't think you'd like looks attractive to you, but it's because you love that person.

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Just for teens / Re: Advice needed
« on: November 11, 2018, 12:50:02 AM »
Just kindly say, "Hey, I don't want to cause any trouble, but I just wanted to let you know that so and so is spreading what you want to keep private. If you choose to do something about it, I would like for my name to not be mentioned." Plain and simple.

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Just for teens / Re: weird?
« on: November 11, 2018, 12:43:59 AM »
Yes! Don't waste your time now. Save the heartbreak. I kissed someone for the first time earlier this year when I was 18, and I have yet to date someone. No rush. Don't compare yourself to others.

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Welcome / Re: Just wanted to say hi. Just registered today
« on: November 02, 2018, 05:38:56 PM »
Hello! Shoot away : )

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Just for teens / Re: Another update (kinda)
« on: October 31, 2018, 12:51:46 AM »
I told you you'd get over it! I'm glad : )

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Just for teens / Re: :(
« on: October 31, 2018, 12:48:11 AM »
Any reason why?

I don't even know. Like I think somewhere she said she had twins. But she was like 13. She said she has a daughter now, but she's like 15? I don't believe it's real just the things that she says.

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Just for teens / Re: :(
« on: October 20, 2018, 11:10:41 AM »
Not to be mean or anything but I question everything akamburger says whether it's about herself or others.
???

She means she doesn’t trust what she says.

Yes. Nothing.

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Relationships / Re: First time
« on: October 15, 2018, 12:06:13 PM »
Thanks for the advice you guys. In the end we broke it off and decided to be friends instead :) and I’ll just keep it until I feel 100% comfortable with my partner.

I know you said you guys broke it off, but I can finally relate! I had sex for the first time on Thursday, and I swear to God everything you said happened to me! We struggled for a full 15-30 minutes (while laughing the whole time, so it was all good), and it was the most painful thing ever. Then when he did get it in, it hurt for another five minutes then the excruciating pain kinda stopped. I was super sore for two days after that, though. I couldn’t walk right hahahaha.

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave my fiancé?
« on: October 08, 2018, 05:21:03 PM »
She’s already tried talking to him, so what’s your point? This is the last time I’m replying to you about this because I don’t entertain.

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave my fiancé?
« on: October 08, 2018, 01:14:46 AM »
You act like that’s the only definition. How ridiculous.

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave my fiancé?
« on: October 08, 2018, 12:15:58 AM »
Wow. I mean you got to the point of accepting his proposal, so you can’t be rash. You have to talk to him and give an ultimatum.


It’s pretty ironic that you would say don’t be rash and then tell her to give him an ultimatum.
An ultimatum is rash! And never a good idea

Excuse me. That is not rash! Lucky you aren’t in her predicament because you’d probably get married and get stuck forever.

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave my fiancé?
« on: October 05, 2018, 08:30:44 AM »
Yeah, no, I totally don’t think that you’re overreacting either.

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