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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 24, 2018, 12:38:53 AM »
Hi guys. I am still actively trying sort off. Have no idea what my body is doing as still no AF and is cd 100now. I am thinking it may be due to my infection even though they say it’s not. I haven’t took antibiotics yet as haven’t had the time to go and pick up the perscription so I will get it later on today. My MIL went to see a Phsychic on Saturday who said we are going to have a baby boy but when we’re not expecting it. She knew about my mc and my problems with my ovaries so it’s giving me a bit of hope. We have missed the opening to start ivf with our clinic having a black out period so we are going to be waiting till the end of October at the earliest for us to start. At the moment I’m just taking every shift I can at work to keep me going and to add to our savings. How is everyone else

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 20, 2018, 12:16:13 PM »
Hi guys,
No idea what I’m doing right now. Honestly I just feel so emotional. I had a bleed again last night but then back to very light spotting today. My partner says just wait and see what happens. I have orders my diet book to go back on that and going to start back swimming next week. I’m honestly not sure what to do. Traveling is not an option at the moment as we are saving for a house and my partner isn’t a fan of being away from home too long. I have decided to definitely go back to uni to do teacher training and take my mind of things. It’s been over three year and I’m just struggling with a lot of people falling pregnant around me. It’s the same as people on my ivf groups that are being induced on to period and getting to start but my clinic won’t help me. I just feel like it’s not happening for me I have tried everything now, I lost weight to the point I ended up going underweight, I used to cycle over 100 miles a week, I now have put weight back on but I eat healthy and do a lot of walking and take my vitamins and I am slowly loosing weight again. We tried naturally to have a baby for 2 and half years but didn’t work tried clomid and that’s messed my body up even more. Even my friend has said it feels like the clinic are saying one thing and doing another. I just feel useless and exhausted. For now im going to concentrate on work and saving for a house.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 19, 2018, 03:43:39 AM »
Hi guys I am just coming on to wish you all well in your journeys, pregnancies and beyond. I am going to come off forums and things for a while and put my journey on hold. I just don’t have the strength to continue anymore. Today I went to the clinic cd 96 and my lining and got thicker dispite me doing everything to get it thinner. I am still sat in the clinic toilets nearly half hour on crying because since I couldn’t start treament today I would have to wait over a month and knowing my luck I will have AF before that and will have to wait the cycle after which could be months. Today has shown me that I’m just not strong enough as I’ve even contemplated just giving up on my life itself. Hopefully one day il be able to start again but for now I’m going to go see my doctor and ask for treatment to be stopped and go back on the coil or pill just to help my body get back to normal for a while. Thank you all for sharing your journeys and giving me advice. Baby dust and good luck to you all.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 19, 2018, 01:08:57 AM »
I agree with the girls settled girl. My auntie had periods all the way through her pregnancy and even had a operation before they found out she was pregnant. I have been spotting going on 4 weeks now and first thing gp and clinic did was pregnancy test as it can be implantation unfortunately fo me it’s just happening for no reason but for you it will be completely normal. Just relax a little and keep an eye on it. With my mc a few years ago I had a period at around 3-4 weeks and didn’t end up finding out I was pregnant till 10 weeks.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 18, 2018, 02:20:02 AM »
Hi guys glad to see everyone is doing okay.
Yes Missdyan here you can get free treament if eligible but it is due to come to a end soon but no set date yet. I am lucky and was awarded 3 free cycles of IVF and unlimited FET during them cycles. You have to sign documents so say they can not put more then two embryos back in but you have medication to get as many eggs out as possible. They are the fertilised and graded to see what stage which are more likely to stick.
I’m back at the clinic for a scan tomorrow and realised I basically can’t do anything to help my body be ready. I tried red grapes and pomegranate juice yesterday but then was told pomegranate juice does lower estrogen which I need but thickens lining which I need to be thinner. Still slightly spotting but not enough that I would notice if I wasn’t looking. Anyone know anything I can do to thinnen my lining as I can’t get a acupuncture session in either.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 16, 2018, 05:32:30 AM »
Omg I can’t believe the way they have treated you Settledgirl. When I lost my little boy they were amazing. They did everything they could to make me comfortable and to try and save him as when I arrived at the hospital there was still a faint heartbeat. Unfortunately I have also experienced bad care too so I know it is down to every doctor. I would 100% contact the midwife my friend is 6/7 weeks now and has her appointment on the 22nd. The gp made her referral straight away at around 4/5 weeks. Luckily for me even if I happen to fall pregnant naturally or with ivf we have bloods straight away and a scan at 6 weeks with the clinic. It is also them that will make the referral to the midwife for us and if there is a delay in the appointment they have told us they will have all tests done with them. It’s always best being safe the sorry.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 14, 2018, 03:41:30 AM »
Hopefully it won’t change your dates too much Angela and good luck for tomorrow.
Hope everyone is doing okay.
Clinic just called and gave the okay for my antibiotics they said it’s fine during treatment and early pregnancy it’s more in mid to end pregnancy I can’t take it. So off to pick it up today. Also my estrogen level is still a bit high so I’m back for a scan on Wednesday to hope my lining is thinner to start the injections.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 14, 2018, 12:31:13 AM »
Okay so I’m literally on the verge of giving up with everything. Since this bleed wasn’t a period I corrected my app and I’m now on cd90. That’s is really bad even for me. My blood results from the clinic were meant to be back on Wednesday afternoon but got told there was a delay it would be yesterday (just thought it was with my blood being done a hour after normal deadline) but no they were not ready last night either. I also can’t take my antibiotics for my bacterial infection until the results come back and even though I have no symptoms of it I’m worried it will get worse. Also sick of opening the fridge every day and seeing my injections knowing I still have no clue when I will start. To add to it all I have very sharp cramps at the moment and no bleeding literally been up since 5:40 this morning with the pain :(

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 13, 2018, 02:55:06 AM »
Wow thinking this is all crazy and congratulations to you all it will be great to see your stories as your all so close together.
Fingers crossed for you on Saturday Angela.
I am currently sat waiting for the clinic to call and see my test results. I think that pregnancy is off the table as i don’t feel pregnant and have no symptoms but the bleeding has now stopped. I’m just hoping that it shows what my body is doing as right now I feel like crap and so drained.
How’s everyone else doing?

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 12, 2018, 11:45:17 AM »
So another update my lining still stands at 11 and needs to be 5 think it’s mm but may be wrong. So basically I have been bleeding do 19 days and it’s not been a period. Can not start treatment yet so they have took blood to double check I’m not pregnant as it would be more accurate then urine that my gp did. And to also see where in my cycle I’m up to if not pregnant as if close to a period I would go for another scan next week and if I’m not showing any signs I can discuss having medication to help as it means my last period started 17th June.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 12, 2018, 01:21:02 AM »
Welcome Mahw22. As Angela said 3 months isn’t a long time everyone is different. I am still ttc after 3 years with no recognised reason and my friend fell pregnant after 2 days of having the implant taken out. But lots of baby dust and come here to chat when needed it’s an emotional journey.
Settled girl congratulations

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 11, 2018, 07:47:32 AM »
Hopefully your rescan goes well Angela. So doctors called and I have a bacterial infection nothing to do with the bleeding. The doctor said to call the clinic as next step would be antibiotics for the infection and to wait till after then if I was still bleeding then bloods and internal scan which are both quicker and easier to do at the clinic. I called the clinic they have said to go in tomorrow morning at 10 too 10 and they will do a scan as it could be hormones or just my cycle so they want to check if it is anything and if not will potentially get my started on my ivf treatment tomorrow. I was completely not expecting it and cried when I got off the phone. I know I shouldn’t get my hopes up with it being not definite that I will start but after a stressful few days to find out it’s possible and for them to ask me to come in tomorrow which is my partners day off so he can come with me as she originally said Thursday and then changed it to tomorrow and I know it’s silly but we had a dog when I was younger and at 10 to 10 everyday morning and night he would run up the stars and drop his ball down the stairs chase it down and go again for about 10-15 minutes never understood why but since then 10 to 10 has always been a time for my family we have a little tune about it and my mums appointment for having ivf with my brother was 10 to 10 and he was born at 10 to 10. May be crazy but I feel like everything is working out. Oh and to top it off I got a text this morning to say my engagement ring has been fixed and I can go pick it up.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 10, 2018, 02:50:01 PM »
Hi ladies. How is everyone?
Got my fingers crossed for you Angela hopefully on Saturday everything will be okay and you will be able to hear a heart beat.
So my gp receptionist called today to have a phone appointment with a gp tomorrow morning to discuss my swobs. The results were meant to take a week to come back and only done of Friday so I’ve very concerned. Don’t know if it’s stress of what but my bleed has become a lot heavier today and I’m in a lot of pain.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 08, 2018, 06:55:17 AM »
Hey Angela, just so nervous to know what’s going on with my body. Woke up today feeling very run down bad head and as always when starting to feel ill my oxygen levels have dropped too which is very uncomfortable.
Glad to hear that things are okay at this point, hopefully the scan next week will rule out other worries and you can relax a bit more. Fingers crossed for you but just keep relaxing and doing all the right things hopefully the next week will fly over for you.

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: September 07, 2018, 04:25:03 AM »
Thanks ladies , it helps to have the support. I know I am a massive stress head and stress about things that wouldn’t happen. I contacted the clinic and they were no help the women I spoke to just said to call when I am sure I’m having a proper period. So I went to the doctors yesterday and he said it could be a implantation bleed and to take in a urine sample, the other option was it would be a infection so had to make a appointment for that. Been there to have them done this morning and hand in the sample, I have no other symptoms of pregnancy or infection. She told me clomidia and other sti can lay dormant for 5 years, but it may just be a yeast infection or can just be hormones. I know I was stupid but I’m now worried that it is a sti, I slept with someone two years ago when me and my partner split for a short period of time. I only slept with him the once and know his name etc and my partner knows about it but I didn’t use protection. I had swobs done about 6 months before that so I know I was fine before but what if it is from him. Feel so stupid and my mum thinks I’m just over thinking it but have no idea what I would do obviously my partner would need to be checked and so would the other guy but he was in a relationship at the time (I didn’t know obviously) but feel like it would break both our relationships from a stupid one night stand.

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