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Pregnancy / pregnant?? please help ladies
« on: January 20, 2019, 02:26:40 AM »
okay guys, my period is normally 7 days. i normally have a cycle of 28 or so. it recently has been changing. my last period was dec 14th- on  had protected sex on january 5th with no breakage. at this time i wasn’t fertile or ovulatin according to this app. however i am 9 days late for my period. which is more than i have ever been. on the twelfth of this month i got some spotting which made me think i was starting y period. it has been on and off for the last id say 5 days. it isn’t enough for me to think it is my period, it also brown and pinkish. of course, googling this has freaked and stressed me out thinkin this is implantation bleeding. but i really want to believe this spotting is just signs of a late period. earlier today i got red blood. enough that made me think i got my period but it had gotten very light almost non existent, making me question if i really did or not? i really want to stop stressing and need help but can’t seek help from professionals. i also had plans of getting an at home test but stopped them when i got the red bleeding earlier. could it have jus died down? why wouldn’t my period be heavy if i have been late with just some spottage. i really don’t want to be pregnant, but honest opinions are asked for, and i would like as many as i can get, thanks girls!

Pregnancy / Re: Boyfriend isn't supportive of my depression please help
« on: January 18, 2019, 12:02:35 AM »
I also suffer from depression along with anxiety. i completely agree with the things the other girls have said!! my boyfriend is aware of my conditions and supports me completely! i believe he does this because he truly loves me and wants me to get better! for example, he will help calm me down and basically treat me as if i am a queen or his queen,, and i don’t say this to make you feel bad just to show you that you deserve to be treated better! you seem like a lovely person and very supportive even though you don’t feel that in return! i hope you can talk to him and get through it even though it may be hard,, don’t give up and goodluck!

Pregnancy / Re: prganacny scare???
« on: January 17, 2019, 04:52:03 PM »
If you have been late for a few cycles each cycle it safe to assume that your cycles are changing. It sometimes happens. Chances of pregnancy are very slim since it was protected.
thank you for responding!!! Thank you for the reasusurance any thoughts on the brownish discharge it’s very light sometimes not even there? i’m very worried and have high anxiety,,

Pregnancy / Re: prganacny scare???
« on: January 17, 2019, 04:50:51 PM »
thank you for responding!!! Thank you for the reasusurance any thoughts on the brownish discharge it’s very light sometimes not even there? i’m very worried and have high anxiety,,

Pregnancy / Re: prganacny scare???
« on: January 15, 2019, 11:54:46 PM »
i officially think i am 5 days late! i’m really not sure, and need advice.

Pregnancy / prganacny scare???
« on: January 15, 2019, 06:48:23 PM »
I am ususally regular but for the last couple of months i have been late. I do track my period.. I had protected sex with no breakage. I did this about 8 days before my expected period. I was almost 5 days late and today started what i believe is my period. However it is much lighter and darker. It is so much darker i’d say it is brown. Of course, googling this freaked me, out implantation bleeding? No cum could have got in me unless it came out of the condom and onto him then me. Is it possible i’m pregnant? I really don’t want to think I am but I need honest opinions.
According to this app I was not fertile or in ovulation.
My last period was Dec. 14 with what i believe to be a 28 day cycle. I had the protected sex on Jan. 5th.
Someone please respond? should my period be like this?

Pregnancy / Re: "AM I PREGNANT" questions here
« on: January 15, 2019, 09:23:12 AM »
i have had protected sex no complications when i wasn’t fertile it was about 9 days after my ovulation. i was expected to start my period 4 days ago and i am late. i have anxiety and i hope that is the cause of it being the becuse it usually isn’t very regular but sometimes is. anyway i got some spotting ohf a borwnish pink? does this mean it’s just delayed, not implantation right? when i googled it it said that brownish pink can be either.

Pregnancy / Re: Pregancy Scare
« on: December 08, 2018, 11:47:49 PM »
had the same scare a month ago,, you won’t be.

Relationships / Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
« on: November 11, 2018, 11:43:43 PM »
It’s pretty unlikely that you’re pregnant. You can potentially get pregnant from precum if it contains sperm, but it’s not especially likely. You also were not in a part of your cycle where you would typically be fertile. So, while it may be remotely possible for you to conceive, I wouldn’t worry about it any more than necessary. Just wait for your period and see how it turns out. Maybe review the steps to properly use a condom and be sure that you got everything right. If you don’t use them correctly they will be less effective and more likely to break. Good luck
thank you,, i know you said not to worry too much but the wait for my period has had me all sorts of stressed. it is hopefully starting tomorrow, if not i don’t know what i’ll do other than freak out.

Relationships / Re: Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
« on: November 08, 2018, 03:41:07 PM »
It for sure is too late for a morning after pill. As much as i’d like to be put on the pill, it isn’t an option for me right now. But just for some relief, you don’t think i’m pregnant right? thanks for responding

Just for teens / Re: Needing Counselling/A Therapist
« on: November 06, 2018, 10:35:16 PM »
staters, never say it is just a phase or whatever. even in a phase the feelings are real. i myself struggle with depression and anxiety. i know exactly what you mean when saying you don’t want to worry your mom as she thinks you are okay right now. depending on the relationship you have with her you could just tell her you have been having some reoccurring thoughts, saying you think therapy might be needed so it doesn’t get out of hand,, i think that would keep her least worried. by showing her you are aware that the thoughts you’re having are demeaning. but that is if you have good relationship. if not you can always talk to me,, i fully support and understand what you’re going through as i’ve been there and relapse every once in a while. good luck,, i hope this helped xx char

Just for teens / Re: Best friend ditched me
« on: November 06, 2018, 10:23:03 PM »
from personal experience, i would say she isn’t a good friend. leaving you to hang out with two other friends. i would be the bigger person, and as you said avoid drama, just hang out with other people. but if you’re like me and have very little friends, just open yourself to talking to people more. :) you’ll be fine, and im so sorry she did that. i know how it feels.

Relationships / Pregnancy, Virginity Loss
« on: November 04, 2018, 11:09:48 PM »
I lost my virginity. I’m kinda freaking out, not about the actual loss of it, but about the possibility of being pregnant. We both had 100% consent and know the chances and risks of sex, even though we’re young. I know the chances are high-ish. But, my boyfriends condom broke. He hadn’t came, however pre-cum or pre-ejaculation was in th condom. He pulled out right away. It hasn’t even been a day, but i have high anxiety. My period should start on the 12th, keeping you guys posted.

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