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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by Settledgirl on October 14, 2018, 11:43:10 AM »
I started to bleed about a week ago so I’m guessing this is everything filtering out and I haven’t stopped bleeding since, but I’m guessing when it does stop and then when I start again that will be my first cycle again... I wonder how it will change as I always used to have a period second week of near enough every month.. and tbh I don’t think I’d win against the the huge brand name I was working for. And plus it would be going against my company I just don’t feel I’d have a leg to stand on Iv been in retail for 10 years and Iv come to know that with the bigger dogs there’s no winning xxx
TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by AngelaFox on October 14, 2018, 11:11:06 AM »
Btw, the periods tend to come back once your levels hit around 50. Some women get it with slightly higher levels. Some have to wait until reach negative but in general it does come back when you are around 50.
TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by AngelaFox on October 14, 2018, 11:09:52 AM »
Settledgirl, I would advise you to contact citizen advice bureau to see if you can make official complaint and if anything can be done. If you have worked there for long enough you could get a very good compensation. Of course if it’s something you don’t want to do then don’t do it. Hope you are in a position to take some break right now before look for new job. You could always apply for jobseekers allowance while you are inbetween the jobs if you need some financial help until you find a new job. Your previous employer sounds absolutely horrible and I am glad you have gotten away from them!
TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by Settledgirl on October 14, 2018, 10:38:31 AM »
Hello ladies how are you all? How’s everyone getting on?
Iv just been back to hospital for my bloods again after my second shot of MTX my counts have considerably dropped now there sat at 300... so the end is in sight after a long month... and hopefully all being well we can start trying again next April ... I quit my job this week as well so it’s all kicking off for me I had heavy bleeding when pregnant and pain and work wouldn’t let me go to leave to go to hospital and I had no staff avaible to take me off and I tried ringing my area manager and the other area manager of the south no answer I was left to suffer alone from 10-6 which in the end I lost it and closed the shop and went to hospital. The area manager has not contacted me back to ask if I’m ok or anything she was more concerned asking the other manager what time I shut .. how much money was we on ... so resigned... Iv never been treated so badly by a company I’m really upset by all this I would put a grievance in but it’s wouldnt achieve nothing I’m just a number at the end of the day when she was told I put my notice in she just said her job vacancy will be up Monday ....
TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by AngelaFox on October 14, 2018, 09:08:50 AM »
I think it’s too early for a baby to sit on it’s own this early on as their backs are not strong enough. I have seen so many people put their babies in siting position so early but it is not right and shouldn’t be done until 6m. Of course each parent knows best and will do how they think is right and that is okay but i wouldn’t make and push my baby sit properly on its own before 6m. With proper support and only for short times maybe earlier. Ideally babies should learn how to crawl first and then sit as then their back muscles are strong enough for them to do it themselves but it just doesn’t happen. Each baby progresses in their own speed and unless a doctor suspects something sinister i really wouldn’t worry if baby doesn’t do specific things by specific months. I think it’s the other parents that put pressure on other parents “oh look my baby does this and your doesn’t” and don’t even think about that everyone develops in their own time and there is nothing wrong with that. Missdyan, you are doing just great and your baby is doing just great. Just enjoy every moment and these milestones will come naturally when baby is ready.
TTC / Re: Mirena fell out
« Last post by AngelaFox on October 14, 2018, 08:58:33 AM »
Cycles can take a year to become regular still can get pregnant during that time.
Relationships / Re: Relationship after divorce
« Last post by LinkleBlue on October 14, 2018, 08:14:43 AM »

Needing serious advice !
My ex husband and I split 6 months ago after a lot of arguments about out 6 month old son. Now I’ve starting talking to someone else and things are going good. He’s never met my son which is what I want but my ex is accusing me of cheating on him back then. I’ve had enough but don’t know what to do because of my son. I don’t want his father around anymore he’s confusing my son when he’s here one minute and gone the next. I need serious help !
Thank you

Tbh, I don't think this new guy, who you don't know that well yet, should meet your son so fast. I think PeriodStuff is right, too. And I think deep down his dad just doesn't want any other man to meet his son just like that. There one minute and gone the next kind of sucks. But if his dad wants to spend time with his baby, he has the right to, and so does the child even if you all don't live together.
TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by Missdyan on October 14, 2018, 07:23:08 AM »
A93 same here. I have no time for myself. Sometimes I can’t even pee! My boy is 15 weeks and he short naps during the day but sleeps most of the night. During the day he wants me to walk him Nd hold him the whole day. He wants to nap with me. If I don’t lay next to him he naps max 1 hour but with me next to him we can sleep 2-3 hours without a problem. He’s not sitting yet or rolling over but his head is firm. He’s quite active too he talks a lot and loves his baby gym. Although I think he is teething. He bites really hard and sometimes he gets mad cuz he bites his hands too hard then he cries. My husband is home in the evenings so during the day sometimes it’s really tiring.

I want to delay solids till 6 months or till he can sit on his own but no signs of that and makes me worry a bit.
TTC / Mirena fell out
« Last post by Danny215 on October 14, 2018, 06:39:36 AM »
So my mirena fell out a week ago during my period. Hubby and I have decided to not prevent and if it happens it happens. Now how long does it take for my cycle to come back to normal and for the contraception to wear off. Or can i start ttc straight away.
Relationships / Re: How to get over an F buddy! Helpp
« Last post by Crodrigues1 on October 14, 2018, 05:52:54 AM »
Yeah I need to get tested again! I haven’t in about a year now. When I do I’ll update you guys , thanks for the advice and snapping me back to reality
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