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Relationships / Re: Meeting new guys
« Last post by G123 on December 03, 2018, 07:14:47 AM »
Thanks I will do! The only thing is I am a bit picky with looks at the start I’m not saying they’re what I focus on but they are a bit important I think it’s only natural and at least I’m being honest saying that. He’s not bad but he wouldn’t be the best looking but he does seem lovely so I’m a bit conflicted. Although I don’t really need to be, if he asks me on a date I would still go to get to know him but in terms of getting serious I don’t know I guess I just have this picture in my head of ending up with a nice and good looking man but does that man even exist ?!?
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Periods / Re: Shorter periods
« Last post by TheJFamily on December 03, 2018, 03:17:54 AM »
Thank you. I know, I was just being hopeful. I’ve had friends that have got pregnant within a month and others that have taken over a year. I just need to take a relaxed approach to it and I am sure it’ll happen.
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Relationships / Re: How many times should you have sex with your partner
« Last post by Chicago.peach on December 02, 2018, 07:40:49 PM »
In the end PeriodStuff was (imo) kinda concerned about how you approach sex. The way you talked about it in your poll feels like you think it's an obligation instead of an activity you do for fun/love/pleasure. Like you should do it because you're in college and the experience and whatever. Also the way you said "I'm 21 so for my age group it is problematic." I'm actually 23, have been in long lasting relationships and to me, I just don't talk to others about their sex life because then I'd start comparing. With my first one, he did and actually pressured me for a year until I had sex with him (He was my first bf and I was a virgin. Needless to say awful experience ). My second one, is private and doesn't share any details, or gets pressured from anyone. I can assure you my second (and actual) relationship is a lot healthier because of that. We do us and that makes us happy. And truth is I feel that you may be comparing your sex life to others, because you kinda sound just like my ex did back in the days.

In the end, we are (at least I am) just a bit concerned because this poll, although it's meant to be "general" somehow portrays how you think. And I feel you you got defensive when PeriodStuff commented. So that's why we took it literal, too. And we're trying to help here, that's all!


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Periods / Re: Late period?!
« Last post by babyL3 on December 02, 2018, 12:10:17 PM »
that is the exact same for me and i’m really scared because i don’t know what to do and i’m scared to go to the doctors as not knowing what to do but i feel as tho if i stress it’ll make it worse.
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Just for teens / Re: First time having sex
« Last post by Lovergirlstories on December 02, 2018, 10:30:02 AM »
I had sex for the first time the other week. I’ve had it 2 times since then. It hurts everytime and I start bleeding. Is it normal for it to hurt everytime even though I’ve had sex 2 times since? Also is it normal to bleed?
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Relationships / Re: How many times should you have sex with your partner
« Last post by LinkleBlue on December 02, 2018, 08:19:31 AM »
In the end PeriodStuff was (imo) kinda concerned about how you approach sex. The way you talked about it in your poll feels like you think it's an obligation instead of an activity you do for fun/love/pleasure. Like you should do it because you're in college and the experience and whatever. Also the way you said "I'm 21 so for my age group it is problematic." I'm actually 23, have been in long lasting relationships and to me, I just don't talk to others about their sex life because then I'd start comparing. With my first one, he did and actually pressured me for a year until I had sex with him (He was my first bf and I was a virgin. Needless to say awful experience ). My second one, is private and doesn't share any details, or gets pressured from anyone. I can assure you my second (and actual) relationship is a lot healthier because of that. We do us and that makes us happy. And truth is I feel that you may be comparing your sex life to others, because you kinda sound just like my ex did back in the days.

In the end, we are (at least I am) just a bit concerned because this poll, although it's meant to be "general" somehow portrays how you think. And I feel you you got defensive when PeriodStuff commented. So that's why we took it literal, too. And we're trying to help here, that's all!
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Periods / Re: Period
« Last post by LinkleBlue on December 02, 2018, 07:57:04 AM »
Although it cam be normal for some women, nicjane is right. If your periods are affecting your day to day life, you should go see a doctor and try to find a solution!
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Relationships / Re: How many times should you have sex with your partner
« Last post by Chicago.peach on December 02, 2018, 05:53:02 AM »
I find this poll interesting for a couple of reasons..
I would expect someone to have a poll that asks “how often DO you have sex with your partner” you chose the word “should” that implies something different. That implies not always wanting to and it being an obligation to have sex with your partner. Furthermore you haven’t got a choice for less than a week, like that couldn’t possibly be an option. Another option was “GIVE oral pleasure” there was no option that it would be mutual pleasure, only giving.

Something I also find interesting was that you said less sex is “Problematic and weird” that makes me wonder.
Sure new relationships are exciting and you can’t keep your hands off each other but relationships, ones that are going to last need more than just lust driving them.

I may not be married, or have had a long lasting relationship yet. But I’ve been in a loving, consistent, sex-driven, spiritual, relationship. This post is “just” general. The answer choices given aren’t meant to be open ended questions. The answer choices given don’t tell a story about my sex life personally, but it gave me an idea to see how other women felt about it. I did say these were general answers that I would hear in my small girl group conversation.

The poll could’ve been diverse, but it’s not meant to discourage anyone who don’t have extravagant sex lives.

Coming from someone who’s been a 3 year relationship. There’s plenty of ways you can satisfy your partner, mentally and physically. Mentally could just be from asking your partner how their day was. Physically could be rubbing your partners shoulders after a long day at work.

Everything is not meant to be taken so literal.

Lighten up a little.
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Relationships / Re: How many times should you have sex with your partner
« Last post by Periodstuff on December 02, 2018, 03:01:32 AM »
I find this poll interesting for a couple of reasons..
I would expect someone to have a poll that asks “how often DO you have sex with your partner” you chose the word “should” that implies something different. That implies not always wanting to and it being an obligation to have sex with your partner. Furthermore you haven’t got a choice for less than a week, like that couldn’t possibly be an option. Another option was “GIVE oral pleasure” there was no option that it would be mutual pleasure, only giving.

Something I also find interesting was that you said less sex is “Problematic and weird” that makes me wonder.
Sure new relationships are exciting and you can’t keep your hands off each other but relationships, ones that are going to last need more than just lust driving them.
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Periods / Re: Period
« Last post by Nicjane on December 01, 2018, 06:11:08 PM »
Does this happen every cycle?? Some women sail through each cycle with no issues at all others suffer badly, I use to be exactly the same, would even pass out with the pain....in the end I went in contraception to help ease my periods. Your best bet if they are affecting you that badly would be to get advice off your doctor....there are plenty of things out there nowadays to help control your symptoms
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