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Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« Last post by LinkleBlue on February 01, 2019, 05:43:25 AM »
His cons are not something (I think) that anyone could tell you "yes break up! He's useless!" Because those are normal flaws that anyone could have. Personally I wouldn't take him waking up at that time as not wanting to see you. If he's demotivated it would be smart to try and find out why. Does he hate his job? Money problems? College problems?
I think you should do two things: make a list of things that you wouldn't want to have in a partner and must have's for a partner. Apart from that, help your bf with his demotivation, for that flaw is usually not a con, but an issue he may not be aware about. Help him find out. If that turns out to be him, then go to your list. Evaluate whether he's worth to you, do you really think you could find a better partner? Or is it just the heat of the moment?
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Relationships / Re: Who‘s more at fault?
« Last post by LinkleBlue on February 01, 2019, 05:31:46 AM »
I think both but in a different way. She is disrespecting her husband, but the guy is disrespecting a relationship. Of course, she is the one who is supoosed to love her husband, the other has no feelings for the husband. but he's selfish enough to not care about destroying a marriage as long as he gets laid.
And if you have feelings for him you better find a way to block them, if he's willing to cheat, he'd probably cheat on you, too.
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Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Last post by LinkleBlue on February 01, 2019, 05:24:24 AM »
Mm... maybe try teling them the truth nicely: "I'm sorry, but I need some time to heal from the relationship and unfortunately you guys were a part of it. I don't want you to take it the wrong way, but going to your house and spending time with you makes it harder for me to move on" or something of the sorts.
If they feel offended don't feel bad. It would be selfish not to understand you in this situation.
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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by AngelaFox on February 01, 2019, 12:56:41 AM »
Not long now Settledgirl! And it’s such a shame that you haven’t got good relationshipbwith your SIL.
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Relationships / Re: Ex bf wants to have sex
« Last post by mtpd on January 31, 2019, 06:55:35 PM »
How do I tell them that in a nice way? I don’t want them to think that I want to ignore them too
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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« Last post by Settledgirl on January 31, 2019, 06:36:24 PM »
I’m glad your scans and pregnancy’s are going really well Angela and Ria! Today I started crycle number 3 and I just began week 7 of my folic so 6 more weeks and we can start trying again... feels like it’s been forever but we’ve decided to start after 4 months from the ectopic, we’ve had the go ahead as well soon as we’ve been on folic for 12 weeks so it will soon be time to start all over again for the second time and hopefully the last time fingers crossed. It’s been such a difficult journey my sister in law isn’t helping either! She’s just a really rubbish person like propa she never once spoke to me through my ectopic and we’ve had a massive bust up over everything because she said some nasty things about me being pregnant now she’s started saying oh I get IVF in March you going to be uncles and aunties excuse my French but f*** off you insensitive cow. she literally makes my life a living nightmare I’m so glad we’ve cut ties now. Xx
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Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« Last post by 90210 on January 31, 2019, 04:26:44 PM »
 Sorry this is everywhere - i couldn't fit my full messege!!!!
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Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« Last post by 90210 on January 31, 2019, 04:26:02 PM »
Pros
- we're literally SO on level with the same personality the same music taste we're so perfect in that way
- his so loving and has perfect morals, his a soppy mofo but i do love it
I obviously love him to pieces and his my best friend but i feel like compatibility it might be getting to the point where I'd be happier with someone else..
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Relationships / Re: 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« Last post by 90210 on January 31, 2019, 04:23:50 PM »
Cons
- his got no motivation, we've had SO many arguments in past with me getting upset that we was meant to be  at 1 for example and he'd wake up at 12 so its like he obvs don't care about meeting me??? His changed a big ngl but he knows it bothers me when we lye in bed till 1pm cause i lye there bored, i wanna be with someone who has motviation and wants to take me places and have fun I'm 21 ffs not 40

- I'm like the mom in the relationship: i plan EVERYTHING i think of everything to do, and when i moan he'll panic like 'ill change ill plan more' does ir once and then back to his own ways

For his birthday i took him away to capital of norway for 5 days as a suprise... i don't give to receive but but my birthday he took me a day to chester??? Like erm? We had a massive argument and he said i made him feel guitly but what girl would be happy about that!!

And not to be shallow but these things also bother me: his skinnier and the same height of me so i feel fat (im 5"5) - and part of me just wants to be  with a guy that'll take me out and someone with motivation, i don't want to loose what we've got so idk what to do
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Relationships / 50 50 with boyfriend of 2 years
« Last post by 90210 on January 31, 2019, 04:16:00 PM »
So I've been with my boyfriend  for nearly two and a half years and I've been having real doubs lately and idk what to do, I'll do a pro con in points cause cba to write a novel.. In short i have something very simular to endometriosis (always bleeding) and i notice certain points of my period i get really strong break up signals - anyone else get that?

Pros
- we're literally SO on level with the same personality the same music taste we're so perfect in that way
- his so loving and has perfect morals, his a soppy mofo but i do love it
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