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Relationships / Re: Help
« on: July 18, 2019, 06:17:37 AM »
You have to get out of that "relationship".you can't save him just because you care about him. He clearly doesn't care about you and he's also an irresponsible idiot if he thinks you being pregnant is not his responsibility. He's treating you like trash. I understand you want to get him to stop using drugs, but you can't jeopardize your own mental health over his. Advice him? You can do that. But staying with him when he treats you like this? You shouldn't do that, in the end it's going to hurt you too much. If I were you I'd block him from every single social media and avoid meeting him

Just for teens / Re: Older Guy
« on: July 13, 2019, 06:00:59 AM »
I see. Well in my opinion, you two don't lose anything with this agreement. Both of you are allowed to date other people until you become of age. A LOT can happen in this couple of years, you may find that you don't want to be with him anymore after you grow up, or viceversa, but I think what you guys are doing is ok! If it works great, if it doesn't you lose nothing!

Just for teens / Re: DRAMA
« on: July 11, 2019, 05:35:22 AM »
You've been friends with Hannah for a long time. I would like to believe there's a good reason why she's defending Laura when she's being so toxic. If I were you, I'd probably ask Hannah, in person and in private, what is really going on. My uneducated guess is that Laura probably has some issues or sth at home or personally and Hannah feels too sorry for her. Either way, in your position I wouldn't try to befriend Laura, just fix things with Hannah and mention this agreement you guys did and everything. See how that works for you and let us know!

Just for teens / Re: Older Guy
« on: July 04, 2019, 05:35:17 AM »
Talking all the time may be a bit "dangerous" as you guys would be playing with fire in some way. But is he leaving for college? Because if that's the case then you would only be talking and i think that's ok. But if you see him all the time you guys might end up doing something, in which case I'd put a bit of distance

Just for teens / Re: relationship, depression, and loss of virginity
« on: June 14, 2019, 05:42:54 AM »
It is a bit awkward but I think you just have to let things clear with him. He already said he doesn't want a relationship, so I think you should just talk to him and say sth like "I want to continue our friendship as always, jus know that nothing I do is about leading you on, you're just my friend". And that should do the trick. I had a similar situation with my best friend and it was a bit uncomfortable, but after a couple of weeks it all went back to normal!

Other / Re: Stuck down there..
« on: June 14, 2019, 05:37:56 AM »
It seems weird to me that toilet paper could get stuck up your vagina, especially if you can't see it. I'd think maybe you vagina is a bit swollen and you're mistaking it for tp. Then again, I've never been in the situation. if you are really sure it's there though, maybe you should go to the doctor and see if they can get it out?

Other / Re: Stuck down there..
« on: June 13, 2019, 05:33:32 AM »
Have you checked with a mirror or something to see if it is there? How far up is it?

TTC / Re: What do you see?
« on: May 21, 2019, 05:20:25 AM »
Sorry, but I don't see the line!

Health / Re: Vagina swelling
« on: May 18, 2019, 05:56:35 AM »
Maybe you're experiencing an allergic reaction to latex?

Relationships / Re: Anxiety and boyfriend being mad
« on: May 14, 2019, 05:44:59 AM »
His friend is definitely an idiot! But you shouldn't tell your bf what to do and what not to do.
I suggest you talk in a different way about it. Tell him that hos friendship makes you feel insecure and try to find a solution together rather than asking him not to hang out with him. He's probably angry and lashing out at you because of the feeling of being controlled
Regarding your anxiety, I'd suggest you get sone help if it's that bad!

Honestly I agree with you. I wouldn't want someone like that near my children. But it's complicated because your bf doesn't see it. My suggestion is you guys try to find a halfway point here. Maybe your future children can see his uncle but only around other people , never staying alone with them. From what you tell us about him, it doesn't really seem that he will make an effort to be around your children, as he is apparently extremely recluded. So maybe you won't even have to make a lot of effort to keep them away.

Health / Re: Long period
« on: May 04, 2019, 05:47:20 AM »
Try going to a different clinic and get someone else's opinion. That can't be normal!

Just for teens / Re: Mental Health and School
« on: May 01, 2019, 05:29:36 AM »
You definitely need therapy! It is true that others go through that and are able to carry on with their lives, but when anxiety and panic attacks get in the way of your daily life it's time to see a therapist!

Just for teens / Re: Sex??
« on: April 26, 2019, 06:47:49 AM »
Just say it. He shouldn't get offended by that. My ex was the same and i ended up having sex because of the pressure, not because I was ready (spoiler alert: it was awfu). So I recommend being very firm in your position, no matter how offended he might get, it's the best for you

Relationships / Re: Relationship Advice
« on: April 21, 2019, 06:59:03 AM »
Perhaps you could give her the benefit of the doubt. She has matured, this happened 8 years ago. On the other hand you may be right and she may still be a bad person. So how about reaching a middle point here? Maybe your bf should, just in case, hang out with her only in the presence of A. That way B can't even have the chance to try anything with him.
Btw I understand why it makes you uncomfortable, I think amyone would feel that way tbh.

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