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TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: March 17, 2019, 06:23:01 PM »
All my prayers are with your family Angela sending all positive vibes and hugs your way. And thank you ria !

Quick question which is really bugging me.
Am I TTC correctly so I've been tracking for over a year and I always believed that you had sex the days leading up to your blazing positive opk which I have always done and a few days after anyway I just read that it's not the days leading up to it from when you get the first positive opk but it actually when you get your first positive opk it's them three days including that day onwards.

So example I've got my positive opk today, and me and my other half having been doing the deed and we last had sex Friday night around midnight. As be had a flight to catch for a business meeting Saturday morning does this mean I could missed my chance ?? Normally I do it leading up to and after I just wondered if basically this month was out the window!


TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: March 15, 2019, 05:29:12 PM »
When all my prayers to your family Angela I hope everything works out ok!

And ria least your getting somewhere now! And it makes it all worth it! I just wanna be pregnant! Xxx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: March 15, 2019, 11:00:02 AM »
Im so glad youve progressed alot further Angela it's so nice to see when we all understand the heartbreak we've been through everyone on this feed deserves the happiness of having a successful pregnancy it's taken a long time I mean joined this thread last feburary so just over a year now and I feel like we've all lives each others story's and connected so it's so nice to see good things happening to you all. And congratulations ria! It's all coming together slowly but surely ! I got a phone call for an interview today which is next Wednesday so fingers crossed for that! Xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: March 14, 2019, 02:24:15 PM »
Thank you for all your kind words everyone really appreciated sorry IV been quite and yeah well im going to carry on TTC whilst loosing my job / looking for a job because at the end of the day you can't put something like this one hold I mean it took me 8 months to get pregnant the first time and that was an ectopic that set me back 6 months so I'm just gonna carry on as I'm so desperate to be a mum. We will manage there is always a way, how is everyone getting on there's a few new people on here I haven't spoken to before so what's yours story's ladies ? And how's your pregnancy getting alone Angela how far gone are you now? XX

« on: March 07, 2019, 06:19:24 PM »
Hello Nikkilou it's really nice to meet someone who's going through the same thing sorry IV only just messaged back IV had issues getting onto this app. I've started TTC again god knows how long for this time and like you say it's just at the back of your mind it will happen all over again!

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: March 07, 2019, 06:02:46 PM »
Hello everyone! It's been a while but I haven't been able to get in the forum for some reason ! It kept saying I had no internet when I clearly did! How is everyone getting on what's new ? We've started TTC again it will be just over four months since my ectopic IV taken my 12 weeks folic now so it's back to the waiting game! IV had alot of bad luck recently Friday I found out I'm loosing my job at the end of the month and then Saturday I lost my uncle to cancer they say it comes in threes so I'm waiting we was going to wait to TTC again till I got a new job but after it taking so long to TTC last time and it all going peak tong and adding 6 months of waiting to TTC again it's just not worth the risk because this time again it could take forever and not go planned again so I'm not waiting anymore for when it's the right time due to work because it just shows anything can happen xx

« on: February 05, 2019, 04:47:49 PM »
I feel very alone in this situation and struggling to find anyone who’s been through this is there anyone out there who has suffered an ectopic pregnancy ??

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: February 02, 2019, 01:21:02 PM »
I know Angela Ive been counting down every single day haha Iv Booked loads of things to keep me busy from now till then haha hoping it will make time seem to go quicker.   Xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 31, 2019, 06:36:24 PM »
I’m glad your scans and pregnancy’s are going really well Angela and Ria! Today I started crycle number 3 and I just began week 7 of my folic so 6 more weeks and we can start trying again... feels like it’s been forever but we’ve decided to start after 4 months from the ectopic, we’ve had the go ahead as well soon as we’ve been on folic for 12 weeks so it will soon be time to start all over again for the second time and hopefully the last time fingers crossed. It’s been such a difficult journey my sister in law isn’t helping either! She’s just a really rubbish person like propa she never once spoke to me through my ectopic and we’ve had a massive bust up over everything because she said some nasty things about me being pregnant now she’s started saying oh I get IVF in March you going to be uncles and aunties excuse my French but f*** off you insensitive cow. she literally makes my life a living nightmare I’m so glad we’ve cut ties now. Xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 22, 2019, 03:51:20 PM »
I’m so sorry to hear the news mwah we are all beee for you when your ready xxxx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 16, 2019, 05:49:23 PM »
Hello Nikki Lou, I’m sorry to hear the process you are going through it’s all really nerve racking Iv decided TTC again in 8 weeks after Iv been on folic for 12 weeks, because Iv been in touch with the ectopic association and they said as long as Iv has 3 cycles since my ectopic it doesn’t matter how many shots Iv had I can start again so I would be 4 months ahead of when my Levels hit 0 to start again but I’m the same as you I’m so ready but I’m so scared I feel so jealous of those women who got pregnant and had no issues and got to enjoy it, I feel like all that’s been robbed from me like I won’t be able to enjoy any pregnancy’s in future il be riddled with worry as much as I don’t want to be and i know it will be the same for a lot of the women on here it’s just so hard you never expect to have to deal with anything fertility wise when your younger xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 14, 2019, 11:36:32 AM »
Can someone cheer me up :(? I’m suffering at the moment Iv been told that because my first pregnancy was ectopic I’m going to really struggle now conceiving a pregnancy :( xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 06, 2019, 06:47:13 AM »
If been looking for a job since I found out, but nothing as of yet but it’s the time of the year where finding new jobs is difficult, because I’m actually quite good at job hunting and get jobs pretty quick, this job I have now is only a rolling contract job which I’m hoping will turn permanant but I’m not putting all my eggs in one basket I’m trying to find something part time as I only want a max of 25 hours after work 50+ a week for so long and after the ectopic and everything, the hospital said I was under a lot of stress and I was my life was work everything came last, and then thy treated me like that younknow they have took all my money off me and not even paid what they owed me, anyway... I really like this job and I really like the people and it’s the happpiest Iv been in a job, so I’m applying for jobs just I cover myself just in case we do go bust I mean we’ve had a lot of positive news from buyers wanting to buy us. So we shall see what the future holds it’s all up in the air and I’m just going to see how I feel after Iv been on 12 weeks worth of folic xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 05, 2019, 05:40:02 PM »
We are 100% going to wait and just get advice on the go, the actual ectopic pregnancy support and advice support Company that the hospital actually give you leaflets for to support you in your loss actually say you can TTC again after 3 months and after being on folic for 12 weeks so I’m so confused the hospitals say 6 months but the actual association say 3 here’s what it says on the website “ If you have had either one or two injections of Methotrexate you should wait until your hCG levels have fallen to below 5mIU/mL (your doctor will advise you when this is through blood tests) and then take a folic acid supplement for 12 weeks before you try to conceive.“ so I’m like what do I do?? I am going to wait 100% till Iv been on folic for 12 weeks which would take me up to 4 & a half months after I’m just not sure at that point what I will do because it’s all different information from different people. I would book a holiday but I also cannot risk booking one now as like I mentioned a in November I got a new job well they have gone into administration so we can’t do anything till we know what’s what. It’s just constant bad luck for me haha! And I thought 2019 would be the year or change and day after Xmas day we got told we was in administration. Xx

TTC / Re: TTC buddy
« on: January 05, 2019, 03:44:08 PM »
Hello Angela, and unfortunately not it’s from when your counts hit 0 because also that’s when your allowed to start taking folic again, and you have to be on folic for 12 weeks as well from 0 but it’s 6 months :( xx

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