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Health / Re: Vagina swelling
« on: May 18, 2019, 05:56:35 AM »
Maybe you're experiencing an allergic reaction to latex?

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Relationships / Re: Anxiety and boyfriend being mad
« on: May 14, 2019, 05:44:59 AM »
His friend is definitely an idiot! But you shouldn't tell your bf what to do and what not to do.
I suggest you talk in a different way about it. Tell him that hos friendship makes you feel insecure and try to find a solution together rather than asking him not to hang out with him. He's probably angry and lashing out at you because of the feeling of being controlled
Regarding your anxiety, I'd suggest you get sone help if it's that bad!

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Honestly I agree with you. I wouldn't want someone like that near my children. But it's complicated because your bf doesn't see it. My suggestion is you guys try to find a halfway point here. Maybe your future children can see his uncle but only around other people , never staying alone with them. From what you tell us about him, it doesn't really seem that he will make an effort to be around your children, as he is apparently extremely recluded. So maybe you won't even have to make a lot of effort to keep them away.

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Health / Re: Long period
« on: May 04, 2019, 05:47:20 AM »
Try going to a different clinic and get someone else's opinion. That can't be normal!

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Just for teens / Re: Mental Health and School
« on: May 01, 2019, 05:29:36 AM »
You definitely need therapy! It is true that others go through that and are able to carry on with their lives, but when anxiety and panic attacks get in the way of your daily life it's time to see a therapist!

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Just for teens / Re: Sex??
« on: April 26, 2019, 06:47:49 AM »
Just say it. He shouldn't get offended by that. My ex was the same and i ended up having sex because of the pressure, not because I was ready (spoiler alert: it was awfu). So I recommend being very firm in your position, no matter how offended he might get, it's the best for you

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Relationships / Re: Relationship Advice
« on: April 21, 2019, 06:59:03 AM »
Perhaps you could give her the benefit of the doubt. She has matured, this happened 8 years ago. On the other hand you may be right and she may still be a bad person. So how about reaching a middle point here? Maybe your bf should, just in case, hang out with her only in the presence of A. That way B can't even have the chance to try anything with him.
Btw I understand why it makes you uncomfortable, I think amyone would feel that way tbh.

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Just for teens / Re: Mommy issues
« on: April 19, 2019, 06:36:28 AM »
That's awful. How can she do that to you?!
It seems you have a toxic mother, the only thing I can think of is meditation. Try to meditate so you get a better perspective about yourself and change your mindset. It may help you accept who you are and not listen to your mother. There are several apps for that, I'm using one called headspace and they ask you what focus you want to give your meditation sessions. I think I remember there was an option about loving yourself. Hope that helps! And your mother is being very mean to you, don't listen to her! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You are pretty even if you don't think so!

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Relationships / Re: Not ready? (Kinda long but plz respond)
« on: April 07, 2019, 06:40:40 AM »
He sounds like a nice guy for telling you that instead of trying to take advantage of you. I think you should try and be his friend, let him heal and try and help him while he moves on. Don't be his friend with the second intentions of dating him,  as that may make you give advices based on your feelings and you wanting to be with him, just stay friends and see what happens.That is, unless it hurts you too much, in which case I'd recommend you put some distance between you and explain to him that it hurts you to be just his friend and when your feelings calm down then go back and talk to him.

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Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 19, 2019, 05:20:33 AM »
You are welcome!!! Best of lucks!!!

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Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 18, 2019, 05:24:20 AM »
What a jerk!
Well you coupd always go to therapy, there you may find out exactly why you're feeling the way you do and how to feel better as well. And I'm sorry you feel that way. I hope you recover emotionally soon!

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Relationships / Re: Help - coercion?
« on: March 16, 2019, 05:51:33 AM »
Hi! Well first of all I don't understand well why you believe you can't trust your memory. DId you feel weird at those times?

Secondly, yes, You were coerced and pressured. A no is a no, you shouldn't have to insist to not do something, what is wrong with him checking for blood? Listen, you should try to get away from him, don't stay alone with him because he's definitely going too far everytime. I was Coerced into losing my virginity as well, and trust me, you don't want to go through with that guy. He will disturb your vision of sexuality and make you think that behavior Is normal. He's not good for you!

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Health / Re: Breast Problems
« on: March 13, 2019, 05:22:44 AM »
I agree with you. She should definitely go but try a different doctor now, a second opinion. I really doubt that it's nothing serious!!

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Just for teens / Re: Guy i know is on drugs
« on: March 10, 2019, 07:42:02 AM »
It's a tough one. There's not much you can do unfortunately, because even though it's important to tell him how damaging all these stuff are, he won't stop doing it just because you tell him.

The most responsible thing would be to talk to his parents, but there's always the possibility that the reason he thinks his life is messed up is because his parents are toxic? Maybe you should try to get closer to him so he tells you his story, and do tell him that what he's doing will destroy him, but wait until you hear why "his life is messed up" to decide whether or not you should tell his parents. If I were you i'd also ask my own parents for advice.

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Relationships / Re: Am i wrong??
« on: March 08, 2019, 05:22:39 AM »
Not all guys are the same. Maybe you have dated guys who follow a pattern and end up breaking your trust. Try to understand the things that these guys had in common and maybe you'll be able to identify the bad ones from the good ones.

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