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Relationships / Re: Confused -my husband avoid intimacy
« on: August 25, 2017, 02:18:45 pm »
Definitely feels like there's something wrong in his personal life that he's not sharing with you :/ well, I don't know how you asked him to have sex, but his reaction seems a bit overboard,  don't you think?

Maybe he's depressed? Did you ask him about his reaction that night?

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Relationships / Re: Past relationships
« on: August 25, 2017, 02:09:21 pm »
If you have diagnosed depression you should talk to your therapist. About the boy, I'm sorry it didn't work but if you're in school you're probably very young. You will find someone else in the future! Trust me! Even if it doesn't seem like that at the moment, it probably feels you'll never find someone like him, but in the end you'll find someone better for you than him. :)

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave him?
« on: August 23, 2017, 02:07:08 pm »
My husband avoids to have intimacy. He is a little overweight and I think he does not want me to see him but he doesn't do anything to change that... it's been almost a year without being together... I love him and I know he loves me too and there is not other women or men. What should I do


Hello Saveca! I've never been married but, is this something you have talked to him about? If it's gone this far perhaps it's not just about him being overweight? I think he might need to see a therapist to help him deal with this issue. Then again I've never been married but I'm trying to help! Good luck with that! :)

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave him?
« on: August 18, 2017, 02:52:36 pm »
don't leave him
If you love him  :-*

She shouldn't stay in an unhealthy relationship where, to make it worse, the guy is most likely a cheater.... the fact that she loves him is not enough to stay with him if it's not healthy for her!
I love junk food but you don't see me eating fried chicken everyday. Should I eat it everyday just because I love it, even though it's bad for me? I don't think so.
And emotional health is just as important as physical health, and she is in an UNHEALTHY relationship.

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave him?
« on: August 14, 2017, 11:31:36 am »
Oh .-. In that case you should definitely leave him! But for real this time. Being on an doff and Him being unfaithful? Not worth at al

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Relationships / Re: Should I leave him?
« on: August 14, 2017, 08:01:01 am »
An on and off relationship doesn't sound like something good to begin with. But I don't understand what "having a wandering eye" means? Could you explain it please?

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Relationships / Re: Him being a jerk..
« on: August 14, 2017, 07:55:29 am »
Yup! Happens to all of us! No need to thank :)

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Relationships / Re: Him being a jerk..
« on: August 12, 2017, 06:34:47 am »
Hello! Welcome to the forum :)

Well, seems to me this guy's a jerk. He wants you to send nudes blackmailing you because "he could have scored and didn't". That's like expecting sex after a date because he paid? That to me is disrespectful enough. I don't think you should be with him tbh. He sounds like a total jackass. If I were you, I'd stop seeing him for good. And I don't think you should send nudes (good for you for not doing it! :)) no matter what he tells you!! Feels like he could spread the picture in my opinion.

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Relationships / Re: Unhappy with relationship
« on: August 08, 2017, 02:20:39 pm »
Fyi to everyone who commented, depending where she comes from, it could be normal to meet a couple's parents early on the relationship (I met my bf's parents probably a week after we got together and he met mine before we were even official xD) just so you know it's not as crazy as you might think.
That aside, you have to understand his financial situation! He's jobless and you said you live far away from each other. Understand he probably doesn't have the money to visit you :/ if you are working and can afford it, I recommend doing what the other girls here told you. Meet somewhere halfway, if you want/can invite him, do it in case he can't afford that either! He probably would do it for you, were you jobless, don't you think? :)

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Relationships / Re: Masturbation first time
« on: July 28, 2017, 09:33:54 am »
Hello!

Well I personally don't think it's weird! I assume you are somewhere between 13-16 years old? Which means you are a teenager and your hormones are a bit crazy at this moment! I don't really remember if I felt exactly like that the first time I masturbated but I do know that as a teenager (15-16 yo mostly) I had masturbation and feelings of the same sort as you sometimes, like wanting "alone time" more than I do now at 22 xD It also happens at certain moments of your cycle, (not only as a teenager), where your sex drive is on the rooftops and you can't get sexual thoughts out of your mind, so don't be surprised if it happens to you in the future. I'm guessing what you have right now is just being a teenager! :) As long as you keep it in pricacy and don't pleasure yourself in public places you're good! Hahahaha

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Health / Re: Serious Question
« on: July 27, 2017, 09:27:09 am »
It could just be that you're not cleaning well enough, try removing them yourself with water and your own hand (don't be too rough obviously). If they come off on they're own I think you have nothing to worry about.

PS: what you did is not weird, there's nothing wrong with looking at your own body :)

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Relationships / Re: Game of thrones
« on: July 26, 2017, 03:07:55 pm »
I think I can understand what you mean, but this is an insecurity you have to control. It's a TV show, there are naked women there but think about it. There are women everywhere he goes, they might not be naked but they could be wearing anything that might make you think "She looks better than me" and before you know it, the "I don't want you to watch GoT" will turn into "I don't want you hanging out with other women". In conclusion, try to control that insecurity. If he loves you, you have nothing to worry about! Surely you have seen men that look better than your bf, but that doesn't mean you want to dump him for them, right? It's the same principle. Best of lucks, and don't worry! your insecurities are inside your own head! :)

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Relationships / Re: hanging out with ex
« on: July 26, 2017, 03:02:55 pm »
Charlie's right, if he wanted space he wouldn't be sleeping with you and hanging out with you 24/7. It's not good for you to keep doing this, you'll stay with the hopes of getting back together and it will hurt you a lot when he's with someone else. Believe it or not, you are the one who needs space now to be able to detach from him. And that means stopping communication as much as possible, at least until you move on.

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Periods / Re: Is my period normal????????
« on: July 22, 2017, 10:52:56 am »
It is normal. I'm irregular too (I'm 21 years old btw) and it has happened to me. Usually they last 7-9 days but every once in a while they'll last 12.

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Pregnancy / Re: A bit worried
« on: July 20, 2017, 10:27:43 am »
Although I think Charlie and Nicjane are being perhaps a bit harsh in the way they're expressing their opinions, I do agree with them Volleyball. There was a LOT less information back then, I am 21 (soon to be 22) and I'm thankful I have the internet to research stuff like this. As a matter of fact, I tried sex twice (protected) but was still very paranoid and scared afterwards. I don't know if I was ready or if it was pressure from my partner at the moment but I did it. You know what? I decided I'm not ready to deal with the consequences of a broken condom, I don't want to go on the pill nor do I agree with taking plan B (personally) so I'm not having sex again until I feel that I won't be scared or that my whole life will change (I'm also irregular so my paranoia was worse). I KNOW we live in a society where sex is "so important", but if that's why you are doing it then i think you should stop. Do you know how overrated popularity is? I've always been the nerd and I may have like 10 friends at much but I'm happy. I've seen popular people and their "friends" stab their backs ALL the time. It's not an actual bond more like a competition or a contest. Also, that is not an excuse to have unprotected sex. No offense but that's lack of maturity.

Again: although Charlie and Nicjane might have been a bit harsh, they are w right. Also, for further reference on what could make you pregnant, check out other questions in the forum. Get well informed before you have sex again :)

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