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Offline Tea_kitty

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Lent money
« on: May 29, 2017, 01:34:43 am »
How do you ask a friend for them to pay back the money you lent them?? I don't want to straight out ask them have them get offended or mad

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2017, 01:54:56 am »
If they owe u it, there's nothing wrong in simply asking for it back. Tell them u need it yourself?

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #2 on: May 29, 2017, 02:50:07 am »
Ask them. Be kind but honest and if they get offended by that they have a problem.

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #3 on: May 29, 2017, 04:44:24 pm »
Yeah I will just be nice about it and hope they don't make a big deal bout it

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #4 on: May 31, 2017, 01:05:03 pm »
What i normally do is try and get start a conversation if with the idea of money and work around the topic and then u suddenly say ohh yeah i remember I lent u money. Can I ask when u will be paying me back. That is just how I do it so it comes out naturally. I personally don't go directly in but instead work around it and then get straight to the point

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #5 on: May 31, 2017, 02:03:23 pm »
^ That is so obvious, and also somewhat manipulative. OP I would not rexcomend that. Straight shooting is ALWAYS a better option, just do it kindly.

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Re: Lent money
« Reply #6 on: May 31, 2017, 05:29:02 pm »
Yeah I couldnt even look someone in the eye if I done it like that.... cringe lol