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Offline SuziLou

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« on: October 04, 2018, 11:37:16 pm »

Offline MaryKay

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« Reply #1 on: October 05, 2018, 01:05:53 am »
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« Reply #2 on: October 05, 2018, 10:29:13 am »

Offline MaryKay

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« Reply #3 on: October 05, 2018, 01:30:44 pm »
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« Reply #4 on: October 06, 2018, 02:43:42 pm »

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« Reply #5 on: October 06, 2018, 02:55:00 pm »

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« Reply #6 on: October 06, 2018, 05:53:16 pm »

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« Reply #7 on: October 06, 2018, 05:59:16 pm »

Offline JustPeachy

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« Reply #8 on: October 07, 2018, 02:43:02 am »
I would ask him to do counseling with you and see if you can work through the problems. Premarrital counseling is a great idea in general, but especially if you're struggling to work through issues together. I would give it a real try before calling things off, but don't go through with it just because you already said yes if you don't think it's going to work out.

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« Reply #9 on: October 07, 2018, 01:55:14 pm »
I would ask him to do counseling with you and see if you can work through the problems. Premarrital counseling is a great idea in general, but especially if you're struggling to work through issues together. I would give it a real try before calling things off, but don't go through with it just because you already said yes if you don't think it's going to work out.
Actually some boys are so hard to convince, he would probably feel ofendended or humiliated if she even commented it.

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« Reply #10 on: October 07, 2018, 06:33:15 pm »
She's already thinking of leaving him. They're already fighting, and they aren't able to communicate effectively. What's there to lose? If he refuses to go and refuses to work with her, then I guess she has her answer. If he doesn't care enough to try then it's probably not going to work. Also, not all men are the same. My guy went happily with me when I wanted to do premarital counseling.

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« Reply #11 on: October 07, 2018, 07:05:31 pm »

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« Reply #13 on: October 08, 2018, 05:15:58 am »
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« Reply #14 on: October 08, 2018, 05:46:46 am »