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Offline Lexxylou

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Depressing :(
« on: September 18, 2011, 07:12:32 am »
Could my constant thinking of babies, planning, etc... Cause me to not conceive... Its like my body says " oh u want it that bad do u" . Well not gonna happen :(

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #1 on: September 18, 2011, 07:24:48 am »
Thats exactly how i feel at the min. It seems everyone is pregnant but me. Seems like it aint gonna happen to me anytime soon. Its starting to get me down every month when AF appears. I thought i was pregnant last month as AF came a wk late which is very unusual for, so i started to get my hopes up n then got bummed out :((( ive had 2 miscarriages this yr, a missed miscarriage in feb n a failed pregnancy in may, but already have a 7yr old daughter. They do say worrying about can effect you but its hard not to. Xx

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #2 on: September 18, 2011, 07:29:20 am »
Lol.... I've only been trying for a month so I can't really talk but that's what people have been telling me. Apparently if u just take it easy and not stress, conception will just happen. Last month I was annoying my partner so much to try for a baby that it ended up I'n arguments and a lot of stress. So this month I have promised myself to take it easy. Xo

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #3 on: September 18, 2011, 07:44:02 am »
I am so sorry about your situation :( that would kill me. U are very strong
Thats exactly how i feel at the min. It seems everyone is pregnant but me. Seems like it aint gonna happen to me anytime soon. Its starting to get me down every month when AF appears. I thought i was pregnant last month as AF came a wk late which is very unusual for, so i started to get my hopes up n then got bummed out :((( ive had 2 miscarriages this yr, a missed miscarriage in feb n a failed pregnancy in may, but already have a 7yr old daughter. They do say worrying about can effect you but its hard not to. Xx

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #4 on: September 18, 2011, 10:22:04 am »
People keep tellin me how strong i am, its just a front. Deep down its killing me. As much as i want another im sooo scared its going to keep happening. Xx

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #5 on: September 18, 2011, 10:32:41 am »
I feel the same, been trying almost 6 months now, and everywhere i look there are preg women or babies, it gets me down, I've come home and cried and cried so many times, I'm lucky that my boss is so supportive and has given me big time more responsibilities at work, she couldn't fall so took her mind off it and bang! It happen to her twice now. So justkeeping busy and trying not to think, easier said than done but I do have a much more relaxed attitude this month, and have taken on an extra day working in my husband buisness so I've got no time to think now! Although dosent help with my mother in law asking me every five mins if I am yet. Lol.

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #6 on: September 19, 2011, 10:20:46 am »
Yeah everyone around keeps going " so are u yet" or " it's your turn next" ... Its like teasing me ( in my head)

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« Reply #7 on: September 19, 2011, 11:37:14 am »
Oh yes all the clients are telling me it's me next, I hate it and dont know what to say! Or some say it better not be next (only the selfish ones say that though lol)

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #8 on: September 19, 2011, 03:59:20 pm »
I feel you ladies. My period was a week late this month, so I had really hoped I was pregnant. When I started my period Friday night, I bawled all night and all the next morning. Luckily I had my puppy to lick my tears so my hubby didn't have to endure my craziness too much. It really does seem like everyone around me is pregnant too and there are babies everywhere. I've been deeply depressed all weekend. I'm sorry we all have to go through this!

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« Reply #9 on: September 20, 2011, 12:24:58 am »
Yup. My friends, work mates, family... Everyone keeps saying " your time is coming" well... WHEN! I'm surrounded by friends who have families or are expecting.. It's not fair! A friend of mine wasn't even trying and fell pregnant.. She is now expecting her second child! Without trying! But yet I can watch my ovulation and dates and still nothing... I fnd myself crying when I friend tells me they are pregnant, I'm happy for them but I'm not at the same time

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #10 on: September 20, 2011, 09:23:33 am »
Ovulation was on the 6th... Did a test today.. Big fat negative :(

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« Reply #11 on: September 20, 2011, 02:24:21 pm »
I know, it's sad, but a part of me dies every time I get on Facebook and someone announces they are expecting, people post pics of awesome little things their kids do. I think we all just need to relax. It will happen when it's supposed to.

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Re: Depressing :(
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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #13 on: September 20, 2011, 04:04:01 pm »
I know how you ladies are feeling. When i was at an all time low a few months back my brother in laws new girlfriend announced she was pregnant, i couldnt take it in. That night i cried so much. I am happy for them both but in a way not and now it feels like everytime im around her its  like shes trying to rub things in n laughing at me. Yeah she should be excited but when i should of had mine on 25th aug it hurts. Xx

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Re: Depressing :(
« Reply #14 on: September 21, 2011, 02:45:52 am »
I feel the same way. My sister in law just had her first and now it's my turn haha Been so long TTC. Did a HPT yesterday and a big fat Neg. I am a day late on my period but not going to happen this time. Just keep positive and it will happen. All the best girls?