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Pregnancy / Re: My girlfriend miscarriage HELP!
« on: September 26, 2011, 01:16:57 pm »
Its obviously not sunk in yet that shes lost it n she might just be clinging on to that weeny bit of hope that the scan was wrong n everything will be fine. Its sooo hard trying trying to take in that this baby hasnt survived n yet its not complete. That was 1 of the things i really struggled with, knowing i was still carrying  yet it had died. I didnt want surgery as there can be complictations with ttc in the future so i let nature take its course. Wasnt easy. I know exactly how your gf is feeling at the min n she probably thinks the pain will never go away, there will always be " the one that didnt survive" but when she feels ready she will be herself again. Shes grieving n so are you. Just got to take it 1 step at a time Xx

Other / Re: Random :3
« on: September 26, 2011, 01:02:25 pm »
Well said jackieb thats exactly what i would do if my partner told me to stop shaving(he wouldnt anyway) lol xx

Pregnancy / Re: Could i have miscarried and not have known!?
« on: September 25, 2011, 07:19:16 pm »
Just For piece of mind i would go n checked out. Its not neccesarily a miscarriage as women can bleed through pregnancy n carry to full term. Fingers crossed your ok. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: My girlfriend miscarriage HELP!
« on: September 25, 2011, 07:15:51 pm » glad she hugged you back , you need hugs too. Rubbing her stomach is normal, she will feel this empty feeling,its a strange sensation. I had it for ages til my body realised that it had gone. Has she had a scan to make sure its complete? I ended up having about 5scans as i wasnt straight forward. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: A shoulder to lean on??
« on: September 24, 2011, 01:25:19 pm »
Awww thanks. Ive got to be strong for my daughter. Im really happy for my sis in law but i feel this bit of resentment towards her especially on the day that would of been my due date(25th aug) she decides to txt me saying she has felt baby move n everytime i see her its babies this babies that(shes only 18) she has to make sure that everyone knows shes still pregnant by making a big scene of everything like when she feels sick or a bit uncomfortable she sits there puffing n panting. Well shes got a big shock when shes in labour then!! Sorry im rambling on. Sometimes i feel shes laughing at me! Xx

Pregnancy / Re: Miscarriages
« on: September 24, 2011, 12:21:18 pm »
Never ever give up hope. I know a lady who has had 9 miscarriages n she is now carrying a healthy baby boy n is due in 8wks. She has had to spend the past 10wks in hospital so they can monitor her but she wasnt bothered as she is carrying. I have had 2 miscarriages in a row this year. Are you having any tests to find out why? Xx

Pregnancy / Re: A shoulder to lean on??
« on: September 24, 2011, 12:16:27 pm »
Thanks. Same here.The only person i have been able to really talk to since my 2 miscarriages is my mum everyone else seems to give me impression that it was "just" a miscarriage n i should be over them by now. I had a missed miscarriage in feb n a failed pregnancy in may. 1st miscarriage i wasnt handled professionally n 2nd time it took 4wks to pass even with medical management n then in the mean time finding out my sis in law is pregnant Xx

Pregnancy / Re: My girlfriend miscarriage HELP!
« on: September 24, 2011, 12:07:15 pm »
So sorry. Tjc is right. She is going through a tough time at the min n she needs all the support you can possibly give her. Shes obviously beating herself up over what has happened n she will feel shes let you down. Go give her a huge hug. You dont have to say anything just show by a hug that you are there for her. you are going through this traumatic time aswell, 1 thing i vowed i wouldnt do when i had a miscarriage is push my partner away as he was as upset as i was n he was fantastic n it dont help things. She will talk when she feels ready. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: Miscarried
« on: September 23, 2011, 06:37:25 pm »
So sorry for your loss. I had a missed miscarriage in feb n i fell pregnant straight after n when i found out i lost baby miscarriage ended 2 wks later n i then went on to lose that baby aswell which wasnt as straight forward as it took 4wks n that was with medical management which didnt work. Everybody is different. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: could i be??
« on: September 22, 2011, 08:14:56 pm »
Your best option would be to go to see a doctor explain your situation n hopefully they will send you for a blood test to check your hcg levels. Good luck xx

Pregnancy / Re: Could i be pregnant!!
« on: September 22, 2011, 08:11:50 pm »
I know what you mean, im only 24 ive already got a 7yr old daughter(yes i was young) she is my world so to have a healthy pregnancy n birth the first time, i got such a shock when i had my scan. Deep down do you feel like you are? Its like me this month, i feel different, my discharge has increased, i keep getting heartburn which i never suffer with n im struggling to go the toilet n im bloated. Its strange i get these symptoms as with my 1st i had no symptoms whatsoever just no period. AF is due monday so im hoping i am but knowing my luck its probably just my mind playing tricks. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: Im 16, and i think im pregnant, should i tell my family?
« on: September 22, 2011, 07:21:27 pm »
I agree with selene, its not the same. My sister in law is 18wks pregnant with her 1st, shes a nursery nurse so she thinks she will cope because she looks after kids but like i told her its not going to be the same as she walks away from them kids everyday n carries on. Shes got money troubles n her n bf both have jobs.

Pregnancy / Re: My girlfriends HELP!!!
« on: September 22, 2011, 06:44:56 pm »
I feel for you both i really do, i was the same crying all the time my partner didnt know what to do with me n it was even worse when i had people telling me its "just" a miscarriage n that i will get over it. Its not that easy it takes time. Just keep reassuring her it aint her fault( which it isnt) it just wasnt meant to be n that you are there for her n that you still love her no matter what. Things will be alright all in good time. Time is the best healer. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: Could i be pregnant!!
« on: September 22, 2011, 06:33:57 pm »
I also had a missed miscarriage back in feb, went for 12wk n baby stopped growin at around 6wks. I too carried on having pregnancy symptoms even though i had lost it. Thats 1 thing i couldnt understand, why i was still getting symptoms n yet there wasnt a healthy pregnancy. I also had a failed pregnancy in may. I really want a baby but im scared it will happen again. Xx

Pregnancy / Re: HOPE!!? i get my ? next week ???eeekkk
« on: September 22, 2011, 03:51:56 pm »
Ill do you a swap as i dont want it to arrive!! Lol xx

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